Ok, so maybe this should be in the personal issues section, but I've met this really great green girl, she's sweet, funny, and a little weird like me. She digs me, too, and I'm thinking about becoming serious about this whole relationship.
Unfortunatly, I live in the ass-crack of the Milkyway (Venus) and my family (immediate, extended) would disown me then kill me! Not to mention what kind of ruckus it would cause her and her family. So really, what the hell do I do? If she doesn't want to be anything more than really close friends, that solves the problem, but if she wants to get serious,too, then...well...augghh! HELP!!
Ok, how old are you? If you are 18 just go for it. Fuck them, just ask the chick out. :3
PROTIP: Never ask her if her vagina is ginger, I learned that the hard way. ;_;
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#2 Ok, let me clarify some things. We are already going out. We have already done it. I am 23 years old and a veteran Star Trooper. I'm a grown man with a real problem here people. I'm worried for the both of us. What can I do to maintain this relationship if she wants to get serious, too?
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This is choice for longterm relation, seriously considering marriage eventually. Otherwise your question irrelevant and not worth Deranged Dildo's time.
If you think such relationship will damage family ties, you must evaluate value of damage against gain of relationship. What is each worth to you? DD wonder about that
You should demand your families accept your choices. You better make damn sure you make mature choice though.
saying bye now.
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You're 23, goddammit. It's Stardate 74859.498!
Your families will just have to accept it. But if you don't think it's worth going for, give up. In short, do what your heart tells you to do. What do you consider important?
(God, that sounded so cliched.)
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Follow your heart...
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i agree on Beforemans opinion. u havent found out if she wants to get serious or not, right? u dont have to rush to decide what u do next, i guess
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Won't she have shiny nipples?
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Ok, I'll see where this goes. I'll ask her what she really wants to do and tell her how I feel. If we end up being together for the long haul...I guess it's time to tell the folks. #5 Yes I know what year it is. And yes TN is STILL that fucked up, but thanks for the pep talk. #4 Well put. To all: I realize that there's no way to make everyone I care about happy in this situation. It's just that both the communication and the bigotry levels are not where they need to be! I live in fuckin' backward-ass cracker Venus, where there is still the VVV and the law still dysfunctions like it always did. The Greens and the Other Aliens around here are just as racist as us Purples and only a few of us younger ones can see past the Glargndurgshit and get along. I was lucky enough to see a bit of the alpha quadrant in my travels at the startrooper academy training, so I lucked up. Now I have to try to figure this out. Thanks everyone. I'll let you know how this goes, soon.
Hey I have similar problems!
I'm a level 31 mage, and this guy I like is a level 22 thief. My father, tells me that it's absolutely unacceptable to date a thief, unless he's over level 48, and says that if I have other ideas I need to stop living under his roof. I'd really like to get out of here, but right now I don't have the means to support myself. But I really like this guy. I'm thinking about dating him in secret.
Do any of you think this is a good idea? If I get caught, I would likely be severely punished, and rejected by my family.
It makes me so angry! If only I could make him see, but no, he's a big shot level 78 wizard, so what would I know? My mother is no help, either, she's just like "father knows best" and ignores me. Parents just don't understand. =(