I work in a pub. Zero tolerence on drugs. My mother is my boss. We cought two big guys acting odd in the toilets together and everything pointed toards drug use so we kicked them out and bared them.
Now i hear that im a 'target' to get back at my mom. I've been told to watch my back. The person who told me put enthisis on the fact that they are men, not boys, and im gonig to be beat within an inch of my life if they find me.
Whenever we have drug related problems, the people involved are always told they're bared and will be reported to the police (they never are reported though its just to scare them or deter them). Maybe it would be a better idea just to say they are bared (with no police threats), to prevent this happening again? What do y'all think.
If they are after me then its GOING to happen. I thought of talking to the person with the initial problem and trying to saort it out via logic and words etc.. would anyone advise this?
I felt like i just needed to get this off my chest.
Yeah, try to talk. If you do it well, you could escape the beating or at least drastically reduce it. Just show them you respect them, do not be agressive but try to back down too much (I know it'll be hard when it comes up that you're about to get beaten, adrenaline rush doesn't help with diplomacy).
Don't provoke them. Manage to get them to reconsider beating you up, but do not beg for mercy. This is a sure way to be beat hard.
If a fight isn't avoidable, do you think you can manage to output some nice damage? If so, do it. Just show them you're ready to fight, and they might reconsider - if they just came for a beat-up and things get even slightly harder (they don't know how far you can go), they might abandon.
If they don't and you're going to get the crap beaten out of you, well... block abdominals, and protect your head and your genitals as much as you can. It'll hurt but you'll avoid most of the pain and damage.
And yeah, police threats might be a bit too much. Maybe a "I'll report you to police if you even try that again in my pub" or stuff like that would be enough.
Good luck.
A 'highly respected' (and trustworthy in these situations) dude talked to the ring leader and says hes defused the situation and theres nothing to worry about but im still worrying like fuck. Every sound and shadow freaken gets me so bad.
I think now its just a case of waiting it out, chilling out and regaining the ability 'go out side' without fear.
>>do you think you can manage to output some nice damage?
Im 18. These guys are big mean men. Im not particularly strong so no i doubt i'll beable to put out some nice damage. Rage at the human race and adrenaline might hwelp but they'ed have that too so its not my egde =/
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Doesn't matter. If you see it coming (you'd be helped if they are drunk or high), just pick one, aim for the jaw, and strike upwards with all your strenght. Just avoid hitting the balls/eyes if it's not a life/death situation, because this is the kind of things that could get you killed.
If you manage to hit hard/KO him (adrenaline rush helping, you don't know how bad a hit to the jaw can be...), just stand back and assume combat stance. No kung fu or whatever, just raise your fists, stand still and watch them carefully without saying anything.
If you get beaten afterwards, do what I told you. Foetus stance, protect head and genitals.
And don't get worked up too much on that, they were probably threatening just like you were anyway, to mess with your tranquility. If someone defused the situation on top of that, it's less than probable that they'll attempt anything.
You should hire a bouncer to take care of this shit for you. Let some big dude kick out all of the undesirables in your pub rather than you or your mom.
Shit i just saw him outside =/ He was waiting at the door for one of our regulars. Maybe he was asking if im in here :S Fucks sake its sorted out but it shits me up something cronic when i see him or suspect anything its amazing how paraniod i can get over the space of afew days. Just been upstairs and closed all the windows again i thought maybe he'd be climbing up the roof :(:(
Haha this is hilarious.
Suicide. Or tell him you want to suck his dick