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1 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-02 16:27 ID:vjt6e9g1

hello Im a shut in a waste of life im also an otaku a perverted life. But I cant change.. Im slowly killing myself with boredom.. This is nothing to be proud of . I have failed my goal to get a family. My mother and father have left me alon and i have no job I live of nothing all i have is a small bedroom apartment and a old laptop if theres any other Shut ins let's all give advice to each other .........

2 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-02 19:15 ID:Heaven

i am sorry, but you are on the wrong board

3 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-03 03:24 ID:FBxCehqI

his hobby is not having a hobby

4 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-03 10:16 ID:c6L2xkRs

>But I cant change..

Yes you can

5 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-03 14:55 ID:vjt6e9g1

I know but I dont have internet so I go to the public library to go on the computer and the personal issue board is blocked im sorry...

6 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-03 21:52 ID:Heaven

So somehow you are a shut-in who goes to the library?

7 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-04-05 12:23 ID:Heaven

Maybe it's like a shut-in who shuts themselves in the science lab at school.

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9 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-05-01 10:59 ID:Heaven

How do you even have a room without a job?

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11 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-05-23 18:45 ID:zwsl+q/G

Can doing nothing be a hobby?

12 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-05-23 19:25 ID:jquyZeXd

Yes, I'm fucking you right now.

13 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-05-26 15:48 ID:Jkwr6UQM

Then i have got a hobby, lol.

Since highschool graduation 2years ago, i just went out of my apartement 6/7 times, only if it was extremly necessary.

I have no realistic interests and have no talents/skill, nor do i have money.

My day looks like this 14hours computer and 10hours sleeping including rest activites like eating, hygiene.

My parents will split and leave soon.

My days of my life have reached the end soon.

14 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-05-26 20:38 ID:jdabCFdo

Well, take up a martial art or something? Get out and just walk around town? Get a job at your local fast restaurant as a chef? Skills aren't something you're born with - they're developed.
Talent is something you're born with - but talents don't get you money.
Just live life a little bit at a time.

15 Name: miko0miko : 2008-10-06 08:20 ID:XejgONr6

Take up drawing?
Join a bowling team?

16 Name: miko0miko : 2008-10-06 09:29 ID:Heaven

HAHAHAHAHHA disregard that I suck dead people's cocks and don't know how to reply to a shitty old thread without bumping it.

17 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-10-07 18:59 ID:BAkvKpR6


18 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-10-08 00:25 ID:Heaven


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20 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2008-10-19 05:03 ID:clQBVhoB

move to Japan
u can fuck girls easily

21 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-03-21 18:18 ID:Nap/VYnn

I've spend 2 separate years as a NEET, though technically seeking work.

All I can say it the regret of wasting one's youth on meaningless things is the ultimate kicker. I was so laid back and easygoing, but when I got to my late 20s I was suddenly like "FUUUUUUCK!!!!" I even had some borderline panic attacks when I realized how much time I'd wasted that I would never get back, still had no GF, most of my friends are off doing their own things now despite my best efforts to keep in touch with them after HS...

I know the real world doesn't look ideal, and it's not. You may not find a job that's "fun," but believe me when I say the best thing is to not sit idle, but just go out there and do something - i.e. get any job and do it seriously. You will meet people, it will renew your sense of self-worth. You'll see that you're more normal than you think for another thing.

For meeting girls, I'm no fountain of knowledge, but in hindsight, I'd much rather remember embarassing shoot-downs than the reality of not having tried at all...

22 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-03-21 22:40 ID:GM3RfTq9

If you doing nothing now, doing anything is an improvement.

Get a part/full time job. Volunteer at an animal shelter.

One life to live. One time to live it. No other time than now. These expressions are as true as they are trite.

Perhaps a reflective question, what do you gain from shutting yourself in?

23 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-03-22 07:06 ID:/e9fUu3M

24 Name: sage : 2009-03-23 09:35 ID:+hyNGWVJ

I'd disagree that doing "anything" is better than nothing.

Its good to just take some time off, every once in a while, even if it takes a year. Just to work through your issues, your own happiness doesn't have to fit in with everyone elses, as long as your not a problem to anyone.

25 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-04-05 11:30 ID:/p8+wLgb

same here bro

26 Name: chewbaka : 2009-04-12 16:46 ID:SRy6FJvD

have you ever considered fapping? that's a good hobby to start aside from not doing anything. it gives you biceps and triceps too

27 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-05-14 18:02 ID:SRy6FJvD


28 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-06-11 13:09 ID:fYfBIdcl

I'm not as worst, but clearly not far better then OP.

I got a associates degree, but I can't find a single job. So I've spent the last half year just being a NEET. I do apply to like tons and tons of jobs on careerbuilder and craigslist, but I never get any reply.

My goal was to move out of this dump, but rent is too high in newyork. I don't even got money to move out of new york. I feel like a failure. My parents are always nagging me to get a job. It's not like I haven't tried.

A year back before I even went for my associates, I did get a security guard certification, but noone will hire me as a security guard because I look so skinny. I learned that to get hired as one, you just need to look big or fat. I actually got pissed that I paid for the classes and everything for that security guard certification and it turned out to be a big waste of my time and money.

29 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-07-12 05:57 ID:+VZmPgO0


I been all kinds of places
Done all kinds of things.

No matter where you go, there you are.

Best to make the most of it. Live life on YOUR terms, but do try to live life.

I wouldn't trade any of the agony nor the ecstasy that I've enjoyed.

There is no flowchart for life. I been into everything from pills, to overseas "contracting", moved to other country, learned another language and did...all kinds of stuff.

As long as you have your health you have everything. Age is nothing but a number. I'm approaching 40 and laugh at how lame most 20 year olds are. Because I'm much better off, much healthier, much wealthier, and can do whatever the fuck I want to do and not have to answer to anybody.

Yeah...seriously get a job. Don't let some perceived concept of self-exile keep you from doing whatever.

I actually, honestly think it's better to live in spite of what other people say.

30 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2009-11-12 14:37 ID:GLibNdD/

Your post made me cry.

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33 Name: norihuu : 2011-02-14 13:30 ID:NRkCkScp

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35 Name: Anonymous Enthusiast : 2011-05-01 12:09 ID:xvkBDJqY

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