i just feel... ＿|￣|○
hug
What happened?
Nothing happened... that's the problem. I've become obsessed with someone who could never feel the same way about me.
Indeed, obsession with someone you think you have no chances with hurts a lot. I went through the same thing in February, and it's harsh. Don't let it take over your life though. Everything fucks up when you do that. Trust me.
Read Sakurina's thread to see my advice.
I guess being obsessed with someone you have no chances with hurts... But how about being obsessed with someone whos in a serious relationship... Atleast in your case you have already decided there is no chance but in my case I will always wonder what might have happened....
Boy, if you are all days crying in the corners then you never have nothing. In this world this attitude is lamer. I don't think so as you are. So, stop this bad feeling, make it for the person as you are.
"Nothing happened... that's the problem." , Well, make something to change that.
Good Luck, and .. you are not a lamer. It was an example X-D
I've been in that situation before. =( It sucks. A lot. But if things don't work out for you in the end, then move on with your life. You can do better. There's someone out there who'll appreciate you for you.
As for me, I felt hopeless after being burned because of this guy I thought I was in love with... but then later, I found someone who really loves me the same way I love him. XD You still have a lot of life ahead.
Good luck!!!!!! ^^v
Same here. My previous obsession back in February was with a girl who had a boyfriend, and quite older. In fact, I helped her celebrate her 1-year anniversary with her boyfriend just to be around her.
It hurts for a long time...
The major problem here is that ... well, he isn't gay, and I am. So, yeah, I'm probably not going to be able to change his sexual orientation, so all I can do is get over it.
It doesn't really help that I'll probably be seeing a hell of a lot of him for the next two and a half years.
Ah, well that explains everything. It must really suck. I can't really relate to your position but that must really be hard on you.
Wow I have so been there... Ive fallen for someone I shouldnt have and she has a serious boyfriend who just celebrated their 2 year anniversary... I spend alot of time with her because her boyfriend lives on the other side of the country but she thinks of me as just a friend... One day maybe I'll tell her how I feel but for now I am happy that she has someone that makes her happy...
Damn that sucks ass... As I cannot relate to your situation I can only say this, seeing the person you care about is better than not being around the person at all. I am around the person I care for and let me tell you this... As much as it pains me not being able to be with her in a romantic sense it would devastate me 100x more if I was not able to hear her voice or even see her smile. And who knows maybe your guy will come out of the closet and maybe my girl will finally see me as something more as a friend...
>>10
oh my friend, im in a very similar situation as u r in. im thinking of taking my dick out of my pants and show it to my girl(well somebody elses girl, but i dont want to admit that).
then she realizes how big my dick is, and dump her bf and be mine...
what do u think about this idea??
YOU GO GIRL!!
Well. I feel kinda OTL too.
My parents saw me kinda emo yesterday and went like WHAT'S WRONG SON and I was like naw dawgs I don't want to talk about it and then they literally FORCED it outta me.
Well, I had to admit that I got no play/kiss/close relationship with a girl this year.
OTL Have a nice new year.
>>14
on one hand:
i do the logical thing and tell you not to do this
on the other:
i tell you to do it and wait for the utterly hilarious story to follow
>>10
I've done that, it's really weird when we are hanging out and they start to make out and i just sit there still 2 feet away. it was even more weird when they started to grope each other
>>18
Tsk tsk
Caught trying to talk to yourself, you suck at this whole bullshitting/trolling thing you're trying to pull off.
nonsense!
everyone can fall in love wit ANYONE.
believe me :D
I noticed.
the most beautifull girl with the ugliest guy.
and prob vica versa
trust me, you have a change, you just shouldn't spoil your chance.
GL