>>13 ahh! Don't ruin the friendship! What's wrong with staying friends? I think it's bad if you start rushing it though, cause then she'll just get nervous, and it'll be easier for you to make an irreversible mistake. On the other hand, if you know for CERTAIN that she likes you(i.e. NOT a situation where you admire her from afar), then go for it. It's better to try and have no regrets than to wonder the rest of your life what COULD HAVE happened. and if you are going to ask her out, then don't do any "mixed signals" crap or hints. Just ask her straight, cause it's annoying if a guy is too wimpy and takes forever to ask. Even if the girl likes you, she won't say anything most likely. YOU hafta be the one to make the first move.