Help. T.T
Be nice and daring.
1.Find a girl
2.???
3.Win her heart
>>4
Like Indiana Jones
uhm...be yourself? i.e. DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMONE YOU'RE NOT
>>7
Damn, no wonder chicks don't dig my James Bond routine.
>>4
You mustn't be shy and dare to step forward like grab and hold her hand and so. If you hesitate to make the move, you gonna miss the chance.
Believe me, I speak out of experience. I was always cautious and shy with my girl and we broke up after 10 months without ever having sex. And mainly because I didn't dare to make a move.
if ya wanna win a girls heart! ask hitch!
...and how long / many outings do you think you could make the move of holding a girl's hand? Curious...coz I'm in a situation now where I want to...but feel it may be too soon.
>>12
Depends on the situation but if the girl enjoys your company then you should try to hold her hand on the second or third date.
The easiest way to do is when you encounter a "dangerous" situation. i.e: you come to a crossing and you give a hand to the girl to guide her across and then you simply don't release her hand. If the girl likes it you've won, if not then she won't be so pissed as your approach wasn't direct.
try your luck at the next raffle draw
Start speaking english in a single tense at a time!
I'm well past the holding hands part, but what worries me is when I should kiss her...if shes waiting for it I know she'll never tell me, how soon should it be? We've been on 2 dates thus far and been hanging out a lot in general...
Third date is when you should kiss her. Basically during an awkward silence, just smile lean over and kiss her.
>>16
The amount of dates is less important than the timing - find a moment where you're looking into her eyes and see that she's happy.
Then something nice! Something nice like... she'll turn away, you'll gently guide her back and kiss her softly, sort of... thing. Say it's because she looked really happy, and that made you happy.
and if was wrong, you say lost touch with reality cuz you watch too much japanese anime. But it won't be wrong, be cool!
>>16
You should be able to tell when to kiss her, just look into her eyes! Eyes tell everything.
Go to a place with a nice atmosphere, like a park, sit down on a bench and chat a little. Lay your hand around her shoulders and just talk about casual things. When it comes to a little silence, look into her eyes as if you were lost in them, then slowly move towards her face and kiss her.
It worked for me. After this, she leaned toward me and just sighed, she was so happy. :)
frigid onanoko not know wtf = a meme... dont care either
being honest is the most important thing ^_~
just be your self ;)
grab her hand hard all night yeah yeah
Put it in.
Put pills in her drink.
Actually, something really cute to do is ask her if you can kiss her; do it politely, like "May I kiss you?". It's really simple, but she'll most likely say yes, because it'd be a very honest and straitforward manner of doing things.<3
interesting thought. Could you specify in what kind of places and situations I could pull this off? and when definitely not?
Chloroform works everytime.
Honestly, find a girl who will let you. It's a compatiblility thing. You aren't going to get a girl who doesn't have the right chemistry.
Once you find her, though. Compliments. All chicks like compliments. And remember, if you can make her: blush, smile shyly, and turn away all at the same time, you've got this shit down.
>>27 Well most girls dont like to be asked persay... it kinda kills the drama... if you hint at it a little and watch the reaction, then you can judge when the time is right.
>>29
Actually, chloroform is not a "knock-out" agent. It is poisonous in high levels and will generally cause someone to suffocate if delivered through the usual "movie method". Also, the victim will thrash around all the while and will not collapse until close to death. So, think about that next time you want to go drug somebody. Protip: Ecstacy in the drink works wonders.
Here's what I do.
I invite her over for dinner and I cook her something real nice.
Then I compliment her hair, smell, and shoes.
Then I ask her if she wants to see something special.
That's when I show her the assault rifles, the Hotaru Realdoll, and pictures of my foreign exploits. I also ask her if she likes rough trade and whip out my handcuffs and shackles.
Surprisingly I never hear back from them.
No.1,
First try to get to know her first, this way, you get to know her as a person, rather than liking her for her looks.
then once you get to know her a little more, just joke around with her. maybe bust up a joke like "what if we got together eh?" =P
see her reaction, if she said no, no harm done, just treat it as a joke.
That's what happened to me ^^;;
Actually, I'm a girl, and being asked straight-out is a nice refresher to sleazy pick-up lines and being asked for my number. It works best who are honestly shy and nice, that's why it's such a good line.
I also know someone who's married to a guy who used that line when they first met officially.<3
>>1 How about not saying "won" when it's suppose to be "win"? points to the title ;) Anyhow that aside, communicate a bit. Give her attention but don't shower with too much attention or especially gifts (don't buy her love).
>>1 How about not saying "won" when it's suppose to be "win"? points to the title ;) Anyhow that aside, communicate a bit. Give her attention but don't shower with too much attention or especially gifts (don't buy her love).
Won? How do you won a girl? Of course you win her first then after that, you've won her. Kidding!
>>39
how do i bumped every thread with useless posts
>>40, by not saging it and doing it like this.
>>38
haha well say.
ehh but seriously, cheesy pickup lines work. depends on who you are though, and if you can pull it off with humour and confidence. of course, it helps if the girl has a sense of humour.
>>42
What if she's a frigid bitch and you fucking love it?
and 42
Wtfk, all of my boyfriends have kissed me on the first date. Is the UK wrong or something :/?
lol i sexed my gf 3. time i saw her. then she called me and we have been sexing happy ever after like 4months now. ^^
so remeber sexe == win
>>46 yes. The UK is wrong. Cause unknown. Cause results in Bingedrinking. Which is uncool everywhere but on that antiquated and sordidly wet hill between the old and the new West. Anywayz....
What happens before and during a first date ain't paced at the same speed everywhere: In country A, you date people you've known for a while, and you don't get intimate. In country B, you date people that you accidentally passed by on the street, and it is seen as impolite if you don't strip down stark naked immediately after the movie for him. In country C, you date people you've known a bit longer, but really, everybody there is promiscuous like a rabbitfarm on viagra anyway, so its pretty commonday to whip out the bondage gear on date 1.
(I'm still not sure if i wanna go to country B or C). But the point (there is one!) is that its fairly pointless to ask an international group what is normal. That's something you've gotta find out for yourself
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