I have a question for everyone. When you think you've fallen in love with a person, does he/she become more physically attractive to you?
I'm afraid this may be happening to me, and I don't know what to think about.
Ofcourse it works that way, when you love someone, they become the ideal of beauty, everything they do is awesome and what they say is sacred. Everything becomes right and thats just how it's supposed to be.
yes. same here.
my ex-girlfriend is not the most beautiful women on earth. But when we were together she was it of course :) (And i still like her, <3~)
It happens to everyone. I agree with >>2. Once you fallen in love with someone, everything they do is amazing.
Yeah. And when you start noticing flaws that must have always been there? That's a bad sign sometimes.
But while they're amazing? Supermodels could crash at your house for a weekend and all you'd do is talk to your girlriend on AIM.
>>1
Yeah, that's how love is. It beautifies everything. When you're in love, you can't notice the flaws of the other, you see them as perfect.
It happened to me too. I was walking 2 feet over the ground and my girlfriend was the "pink of perfection" to me.
Now, 3 yeas after we broke up, I'm on the normal course again. I saw her last month and I asked myself "did she always have those zits on her face?" - and YES she did, but I was in love so I didn't notice any of her faults... That's just how love is.
No, soon you will lose the fkin beer goggles and realize that fuycking bitch has a fat tire and then then what will you do? HUH? SRSLY. GOD DAMN U IDIOTS MUST BE 12 yEARS OLD CUZ UR ADVICE SUX ASS. its not a bad sign to notice flaws u fkin idiots. ITS NATURAL AND PPL GET FAT/UGLY AS THEY GET OLDER L2P @ LIEF PLZ
I think you're all sort of on the right track. But here's my take on it:
You DO notice their faults. Only, you look at them in endearing terms. The things that you would find annoying or strange for other people are now cute and funny. Right?
>>7
"u idiots must be 12 years old cuz ur advice sux ass"
You are truly our generation's Shakespeare. May your offspring be abundant and your days numerous.
>You are truly our generation's Shakespeare. Copulate thither and expire.
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What 8 said, plus, if the flaws are major, you will feel compassion and an urge to do everything you can to help the one you love with it, rather than feel revolsion and abandon them. Ok, so now go get a clue about life.
if ur gf is ugly send her to a face architect AKA plastic surgeon
and make her put on lots of makeup 24/7, afterwards you tell her: "wow before you were ugly but now i fixed you and now you look great! i love you now"
arent i harsh?
it's happened to me. at first i thought this girl was kind of ugly, but as i started to like her, i thought she was really cute. i still do, even though i don't like her anymore. maybe liking somebody helps you to look and them more thoroughly and realize the good things about them
How to be more attractive:
Get a Steyr AUG.
Yeah, if you consider looking like a crazed military otaku "attractive." Most people would not, and I'd say it would be likely to be a big turn-off.
Buying and showing off a gun like that and thinking it will make you appear attractive will only succeed in making you look like a potential threat/stalker.
Generally speaking, people with guns are disliked, which is why they resorted to getting guns in the first place. From what I understand, a gun-owner will place his feelings of distress and despair into his gun, then he will use that weapon to strike out at others. In this way, he's getting revenge against the people/world that caused him to feel bad, using those very same feelings as the weapon. This is the theory I've heard, anyway, and it does make sense to me.