I've got no experience! Need help with a girl! (20)

1 Name: Doku Otoko : 2006-08-26 14:58 ID:t23V7LfP

Just yesterday, I met this girl who was from my hometown (I'm in a different state at the moment for college) and we got along really well right at the start. Let's call her Girl A. We went to a campus event, swimming, lifting and a concert all on the same day that we met. However, I'm not sure if she's interested in me. I do remember though that when me, Girl A and a friend of hers were sitting around. Girl A asks her friend if she has a boyfriend. Her friend answers and then her friend asks Girl A if she has a boyfriend. Girl A answers by saying that she does have a boyfriend back home but she doesn't want to limit herself and close herself off to relationships. She also said that she's open to finding a boyfriend here. Then, she asked me if I had a girlfriend and if I wanted one. I replied maybe, depends on the homework load (I think that was been a dumb answer). Later on, I did tell her that I'm open for a relationship.

Anyways, I'm trying to figure out if she likes me. I think she might since she did bring up the whole boyfriend and girlfriend thing. What do you guys think? Also, if you guys think I should go for her, how would I do it? How do I tell her that I like her? How would I start a relationship? How long should I wait? I'm really new to all this so please help! Thanks!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 15:04 ID:BvYvlaW4

Stay away from her.

3 Name: Doku Otoko : 2006-08-26 15:43 ID:t23V7LfP

Because....

4 Name: The Prof : 2006-08-26 19:32 ID:xFe/fswu

Because if she has a boyfriend back at home, you'll only be an anternative for her and she'll never treat you as a seriously.
If you go for this girl, it'll be a big pain in the ass!

Go find yourself a girl who's free.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 19:49 ID:fiq4AvYa

Girl A will slit you...

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 20:04 ID:zIJ4+BE4

Wait it out since she has a boyfriend back home. See if the feelings are mutual.

7 Name: sage : 2006-08-26 20:31 ID:zIJ4+BE4

>>6
Keep an open heart though. Don't pass anyone up for her.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 20:41 ID:BvYvlaW4

>>3

Why?!

Oh fuck why do I even bother....

Well go and find out then, you dickhead, be my guest. Maybe you really will never care but if you do, don't say noone ever warned you. And even if you don't care, that business still has a habit of turning ugly.

If you're smart, listen to me and get yourself your own girlfriend, and once you have, don't even consider an open relationship.

9 Name: Doku Otoko : 2006-08-26 20:53 ID:t23V7LfP

I guess majority says that it's a bad idea for me to go after her. So...basically nothing good will come out of this?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 20:55 ID:9JoHkl9o

if you ever get the chance to fuck her, do it. but dont expect a relationship.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 21:05 ID:BvYvlaW4

>>9

Don't listen to >>10 he is a cocksucker. You might as well go fuck a whore, because you always pay for putting on another dudes girlfriend.

You are right, nothing good will come out of it. If you want a lasting relationship, don't hook up with a girl who is passing away another guy by doing so. If you just want a good time, don't walk into a meatgrinder just because it said party on the door.

Smarten up.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 22:22 ID:OXVXlRAh

>>1
>>11 is right listen to him

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-27 15:23 ID:Heaven

Girl A sounds like a slut. If you just want to have sex with her, I suppose that's fine.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 01:59 ID:DABQKd+O

remember to double bag that shit. bitch prolly has like 10 STDs

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 03:03 ID:tHectXhG

Why don't you just go play some checkers instead?

Really.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 20:56 ID:+kGf6c78

I agree with >>13. Just think about it for yourself. If you're lonely and desperate enough, and if you're able to handle the shame, then do it. If not, then don't.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-29 00:11 ID:9JoHkl9o

>>14
never double up on the condoms, it creates friction.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-30 06:36 ID:Heaven

>>4
>>11

good advice

19 Name: Agro_dka : 2006-09-05 20:56 ID:SmKAz/Bn

I don't think you should pursue this girl..

Even though she may be hot and stuff.. she definately isn't worth the trouble of getting into an intimate relationship..

Girl A's boyfriend will definately come to kill you if you do.

20 Name: Shamrok : 2006-09-07 23:57 ID:pmL9ysGu

You can listen to anybody here and take there advice but whou u have to listen to is yourself. If your intersted in her stick around and wait it out.

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