Problems with past and present (3)

1 Name: Chiyonosake : 2006-08-29 20:56 ID:Lyvh0kJ3

So I have a little problem and I need a way to figure it out...

I've been dating this girl off and on for the past two years. I think I'm in love with her... I'm not really sure because it doesn't feel like the first time I was in love. And that's the biggest problem but we'll get to that.

We now live together and after some trouble have gotten back together. I'm starting to feel and little trapped into something I'm not even sure I want. See we first got together two years ago after I had moved back to my hometown because I had a two year relationship end horribly, I mean horribly. It ended and I had to live with her for three months while she tried to make me jealous at every turn, made me feel like crap all the time, walked around topless. She drove me to back to drinking and smoking.

Anyway, I moved back and got together with this girl within a couple weeks. I really like her, I really like her a lot. But I have doubts all the time, and I find my mind and eyes wandering to other girls and constantly comparing her and other girls to the one I ran from.

And that's where it gets worse, I find myself thinking about my ex a lot. Everyday... wondering if maybe there was any chance between us again, and that makes me doubt my current relationship. I kiss her it doesn't feel the same, I hold her and it's just not the comfort I look for, and she doesn't hold any of the personality traits of any of my ex's have had nor any of the physical traits I look for in a girl.

I like this current one, she feels safe and stable... but since I've met her I've changed and become lazy and unadventures and my sex drive has gone way down. Sometimes I just feel like I'm settling. But sometimes I just feel like it's right...

I really don't know what to do. Any advice?

2 Name: Nautica!r02sLb16Pc : 2006-08-30 02:24 ID:rqI/i9ZR

Uncertainty is the mind-killer and shit. Stop thinking about the ex because it ended awful for a reason. You guys are not 2=2 or whatev. Completely understandable, but wrong if you truly think you love this girl you gots now.
Although if disatisfaction continues, I am to say move on to something new because IT WILL NEVER END YOU WILL QUESTION EVERY MOVE YOU MAKE WITH HER AND EVENTUALLY BECOME OLD AND BITTER AND DIE AN UNFULFILLED MAN.

(lol j/k)

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-30 13:46 ID:GVzricmz

Befriend a childkiller.

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