So here's the case I like a girl and I talk with her alot on msn and cam. We've been sending letters and gifts to each other for christmas and birthdays. I know I like her and I think she does too but my problem is she lives in another country. I can only go to her 4 5 6 times a year for a month max. I don't know what to do should I asked her to be my girlfriend or is that a big no no? help >.<

BIG nono! I mean seriously, why would you want to bind yourself to a girl who is not even in your country and constrict your freedom of enjoying life? I mean, if you want to, just stay really close to her online and even visit her, but don't make her your gf, I'd say

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Make your own damn decisions.

ok

I actually have a similar situation except we are gf bf. Some things that I didn't consider before our relationship took off.

The country he is from speaks a different language than I so how to live together if I can't adapt to his lifestyle...? He moves to my country? Visa? Marriage?

Currently he is a med student which is a bad bad because it would take years before he finishes. Transfer to a college and end up risking starting college over again? Not only that but how to pay for residence and college without parental support if he moves over?

It's a lot to fucking think about so unless you aren't ready to make a lot of sacrifices you shouldn't proceed.