Gongi to see a girl soon, need advice (10)

1 Name: OP : 2006-09-30 17:38 ID:4x0yGES9

I met this girl at work and she invited me up to london during college break. She really seems to like me (i havnt had much experiance with girls so i donno if shes just being nice). I really like her and would love to be more than friends but there are two problems : She has a boyfriend (who we've talked about many times, shes told me shes only still with him because hes her first and stuff) and shes in London. Im going to see her for a week soon on 27th october, so basicly - What do i do? I dont want to lose our friendship if i say anything rational.

we both got alittle drunk and ended up falling asleep holding hands. Is that normal drunk people behavior?

Aswell, this isnt the kind of "i like this girl i want to fuck her" thing, i actually respect her as a person. I cant even think of her in a sexual way because i dont want to see her in a degrading position.

2 Name: OP : 2006-09-30 17:42 ID:4x0yGES9

Forgot to say - We're constantly texting eachother just to see how the other is. I broke my phone though so i havnt talked to her in ages!

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-30 18:43 ID:HaKhmGUA

By saying something rational? Lol what. Interesting girl.

4 Name: OP : 2006-09-30 23:11 ID:4x0yGES9

Yaknow like i dont want to tell her i like her asmuch as i do if its gonig to ruin our friendship. Maybe i used the wrong word?

I got a new phone today and text her but got no reply T.T I'll phone tomorrow and see, maybe shes jsuto ut of credit or something. Its just anoying because i feel down when i dont hear from her. Im worrying over nothing but i cant help it.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 00:12 ID:Heaven

> i dont want to see her in a degrading position.

cute, but sex isn't degrading. hope you guys can talk through that, because if she wants you she's gonna be pissed if you're all patronising and "i don't wanna degrade you rah rah".

6 Name: OP : 2006-10-01 02:23 ID:4x0yGES9

>>5

No i mean in a purely sex situation. I'd love to 'make love' to her because its already almost happened and it felt like it would have been 100% natural. I wouldnt want to have sex with her though because i see it as seedy. If it happens on the spur of the moment then its all good but if its planned (or atleast you both KNOW its gonna happen) then thats when i feel weird about it. I'll probably feel fine once i get into the whole routine.

7 Name: OP : 2006-10-01 02:25 ID:4x0yGES9

im just contradicting myself arnt i?

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 04:08 ID:iFb2E7pe

>we both got alittle drunk and ended up falling asleep holding hands. Is that normal drunk people behavior?.

No...when a guy and a girl are drunk and are in bed together, they usually have sex. And 9 times out of 10 they wake up to their "ugly" mistake.

And no she doesn't like you. She has a boyfriend. You are the friend. She will never sleep with you. The fact that she held your hand all night while she was drunk says it all.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 08:50 ID:Heaven

>>1
Your name is Gongi and you talk like a caveman?

10 Name: OP : 2006-10-01 12:17 ID:4x0yGES9

>>9

Yar.

Thanks 8.

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