Happy or Sad (11)

1 Name: Bedazzled : 2006-10-04 11:29 ID:g+Cw8/iX

Hi guys

There is this guy in my class who i've been friends with for the past 10 months. one day he emails me and asks if i have a boyfriend, he is obviously interested? well, i email him back and say yes, i do.

he was pretty about it, said that he didn't want to interfere and that he didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable. he let me understand that he likes me alot and can't stop thinking about me, but because of the situation he respects me enough to put his feelings aside so we can go on being friends. THats pretty cool of him, i think.

a few months later, the 25th of october to be exact, my current boyfriend breaks up with me because he is inlove with someone else. i handled it okay - i mean we are just human and things happen.

so now, i've been having lunch with the guy in my class like 3 times this week, and we just chat bout all sorts of stuff. he is like the male version of me, we really have alot in common.

he really makes me laugh and feel good about myself and doin this without any talk of love or relationships.

I know how he feels, should i say or do something.
i'm kinda scared that i may just be into him now because my previous relationship ended, like a rebound thing.
i guess in a way i'm still kinda sad bout my ex, but the guy in my class makes me forget about it.

is it too soon to move into a new relationship, or should i just take it VERY slow and see what happens??

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-04 18:00 ID:Heaven

its too soon. he is a rebound so give it time and if you still like him then go for it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-10 22:00 ID:L8wYxFir

just go for it.

you'll probably learn to love him if your not sure yet.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-12 17:01 ID:GYYdtiaf

It's not too soon. Don't make him wait because obviously you are a better match to this guy.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-12 17:14 ID:PW+7NxN/

I had to check your date posted like 3 times to make sure. But the 25th of October was almost a year ago. Um . . . did you mean September?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-12 17:38 ID:Heaven

You should be glad that you have a friend like that caring for you. I wish I had a female version of myself as well.

7 Name: Bedazzled : 2006-10-12 18:51 ID:b3r4Sbqm

yeah sorry i did mean september.

anyways, i went for it. we had our first kiss and went on our first date. was really cool. finally someone i can actually have a conversation with about things that interest me as well.

He makes my heart beat fast every time i see him

its wonderful

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-12 20:13 ID:aqIEiHhL

Preety nice =) That remember's me of my old gf... now I'm sad =(

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-15 10:01 ID:7aBL0SFB

>>7

> He makes my heart beat fast every time i see him..

aww.

10 Name: TokyoJapan22 : 2006-10-15 15:47 ID:BLM/Ji00

That's Great!

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-16 06:57 ID:QXLGbEM8

>>1
Just grab it and make something out of it. So what if it's a rebound? If both of you make an effort to be together, everything will be in its right place including your hearts.

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