Haha. Um, I went through the same thing. Went out with this guy for a years. It's been 2 years since we've broken up. I still like him and he knows it. (PS: You're getting the condensed version since uh, I've told this like a kajillion times)

Most people tell me to get over him. And I think part of the reason I didn't get over him was 'cause I felt like if I did, then I'd sort of be betraying what we had. If that makes any sense. The first year after we broke up, I was a wreck. I couldn't sleep, my eyes were constantly puffy. I tried to avoid him for a while, but he just sought me out. I tried to hate him, but little things he'd do for me would make me too happy.

And now, I've come to the reality that we will probably never be together. And I do still plan on getting married, even though I will still like him the most. I guess what I'm saying is I just got used to the unrequited love, rather than getting over it.

Yeah I know, I'm a bit naiive.