I'm just going to come out with it. I have a problem doing this and I know I am going to be hurt in the future because of it. I see a guy ramming his dick into a girl as a very big deal, as that's just the closest and most intimate you can get with someone. Anyone know how I can get rid of this mindset? Sex is very common especially these days but I haven't come to terms with it and still see it as a big deal.
watch porn and get a fuckpal or sexfriend that requires no commitment. Sunny Lane is a very recommended professional porn star.
Yours sincerely,
Secret Admirer
Have you been in a sexual situation?
Nope. I'm close to quite a few girls that I know I can get with, but not quite ready for a relationship yet.
Simple - don't try to get rid of it.
You're one of the few non-whores left!
For the love of God, man, embrace it!
Yeah, me too. For some reason, I haven't felt any like sexual inclinations or anything lately. And it's not like I haven't been in sexual situations. It's just not that appealing to me.
>>5
I agree! I think sex is the highest level of imtimate relatioship between two people.
Sex became only a source of pleasure nowadays and people tend to do it only for joy and forget about the emotional side.
I'm one of the few exceptions too.
I had a few chances to lose my virginity and had sexual situations, and yes it was pleasurable but deep in my heart I felt that it's not ok. So I'll wait for the one who really deserves it.
I would only wand to have sex with someone who I love and who loves me back.
I'm an emotional type of guy. Call me sicko, tell me it's unmanly, but emotions, especially love is very important to me. I just cannot imagine myself just "fucking for fun"
So, >>1, as >>5 said, just be proud of yourself that you haven't been dragged down to the "fuck for fun" level. Just stay who you are.
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