What to say? (9)

1 Name: : 2006-11-29 00:11 ID:hv0ZaVuy

Your talking to a girl you like, and then suddenly BOOM. awkward silence and you cant think of things to talk about. what the hell do you say?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-29 03:02 ID:Heaven

Nothing. Now stop making threads.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-30 20:21 ID:GaKyZQZZ

Everything alright in your pants.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-10 10:27 ID:9wJMCjl/

"You have nice hair".

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-10 11:51 ID:J0uKZZ7m

"....nice weather we're having don't you think?"
(please don't...it was a joke)

I tend to say something like "...Silence..." which doesn't help at all, you could always just look at her smiling until she blushes/giggles/whatever, then the silence becomes a 'moment'.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-11 11:37 ID:TPbAtdwf

Ok, I'll say this, why does awkward silence have to be a bad thing? Why does is it necessary for people to have to constantly blab in order to know that the relationship is perfect. Follow these three tactics to avoid the Awkward Silence.

1) Ask her questions about her. what does she like to do? what are her hobbies? Is she going to school? what classes is she taking? and expand on her questions.

2) Enjoy the moment of silence, stare into her eyes and hold her close. Use physical contact, body language speaks loudly. Hold her hand even.

3)Kiss her. She can't say anything and neither can you. Either she will reject you or she will accept it.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-11 12:17 ID:t8+xGI1g

Don't you hate that? Uncomfortable silences. Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshit in order to be comfortable? That's when you know you found somebody special. When you can just shit the fuck up for a minute, and comfortably share silence.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-11 12:27 ID:TPbAtdwf

>>7

Hell yeah

9 Name: strong guy : 2006-12-11 13:47 ID:cvOrwTBj

tease her is the best when u in this situation

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