>>13
Right on. In >>11 I thought I put it as clearly as I possibly could but if that's not getting through to him, I don't know what will.

It's a strange dichotomy-- OP says he cares for her and would never hurt her, but his proposed behavior puts her job, her reputation, her livelihood at risk.

Considering the way OP asks our advice and then summarily tries to refute every bit of it, I highly doubt he's going to listen, however bad of an idea we deem it, in pursuit of boyish lust.

Sad thing.