everyone out there, i need help. i'm a female who likes a person of the same gender as me. what am i suppose to do?
go for it.... i belive that it doesnt matter what the gender if there is a connection, as long as she feels or thinks the same way u r sorted.
good luck
just go for it. u cant do anything about it and the society now has been more opened. i hope all kinds of love are accepted by everybody
>>1
I think that you should just go for it.
Does she feel the same way?
If you think she does, then be honest and open about how you feel.
I wish you luck.
thanks to all who gave me suggestions. but she doesn't feel the same way as i do. i told her before that i kind of like her, but she changed the subject or sometimes she pretend that she didn't hear a thing. i'm lucky enough that she still treats me as her close friend.
Leave her alone if she does not feel the same, do not push it further. It is rude and uncomfortable, even when straight people do it to each other
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>>6
i told her only once. i kept quiet after that. however, she still talks to me on msn (a chatline). secret admirer, i've read stuff that you wrote on other threads and i find that you're such a good counsellor. are you really a councellor in real life?
"Secret Admirer" is just an anonymous handle
It's just the majority of this site takes this section seriously. Which is one of the top qualitys of 4-ch. Acually
It will be hard but if you really cared for her, a friendship will be enough. It is good of her to want to remain friends as many would be too uncomfortable. Even when it is unrequited between man and woman, it often ruins the friendship leaving both regretful
well coz i fart all the time, miss anonymous
"fart man" does pretty well to describe the quality of his posts, too.
>ah, so how do i get rid of her from my mind? how do i stop thinking of her?
Easiest sure-fire method I can think of is find another target. That might sound mean, but if the girl you're interested in now doesn't like girls, then you're pretty much shit outta luck. Just keep looking, open yourself up to new people, and maybe keep an eye out for girls you're sure like girls too. ( ･ω･)
>>17
Protip, kiddo: There are more anonymous people here than one person, and on this board the default anonymous name is Secret Admirer. There is not just one person behind that handle, but in other words many.
But yess.. >>18 has a good point, keep looking, befriend and encounter new people, and eventually you'll find someone that's a match.
>>18
nah, i change the person i like fast. i'll not give up in liking her. but i won't force her in liking me too.
THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING ME OUT WITH THIS. (:
i have pretty much the same idea as >>18 does. the only difference is "find another target" part.
i guess it will very difficult to think of find another target at this stage, because u r so sure of ur feeling towards her. and if u could feel like finding new ones so easily, u wouldnt have worried so much.
so, i suggest that u spend time with her in a way she doesnt get annoyed. u just enjoy beeing with her. and at the same, u open ur eyes very wide to take a look at other girls. u might be able to find a better one who also likes u very much.
im sure that one day u will be able to find a very nice one, and when u find it, u can fart on sarcastic "fart man" and say hahaha. im waiting for that day:-)
i wish u a good luck.
>>21
thank you fart man. yeah, it's indeed difficult to find another target. but in my country, not many girls like the same gender as themselves. and i'm a christian, it's a sin to like a person of the same gender as you. ):
>>22 I don't believe that, and neither should you. I'm no Christian, but from what I've read of the New Testament, I don't think Jesus would call you a sinner for loving someone, regardless of their gender. Jesus taught acceptance and love, and to deny that in the face of dogma and radical fire-and-brimstone "you shouldn't be who you are" christianity is denying the essence of Christianity itself. So do what you think is right.