Damn it. You stupid men. :(
I don't know. I don't have this problem, personally. I suppose you'll just have to learn to get over them.
Perphaps getting a hobby will help?
>>1
Don't blame men for your own mistakes. It's as silly as accusing people who aren't in a relationship with you of cheating on you just because you felt you were entitled to them, in spite of that you knew that there was no such deal made at all (something a male friend of mine is guilty of.
That said, do you really seriously want help, or did you just want to whine?
I'm not meaning this as an insult, but did you perhaps get put through a lot of problems in your youth? Perhaps suffered from abandonment? (no, no silly Freud here, but past events still affect people, just not incestously) And thus keep emotionally clinging onto every guy you know? I have no idea. Your short statement is very unclear. Please elaborate. If you actually want help, that is.
I used to have this problem when I was younger. It was sort of like being "boy crazy", but after having a man when I got a little older it went away. Now I do not really care about guys and I rarely fall in love with any of them. I would actually much rather be alone, and for some reason now they don't want to leave me alone. They want you when you don't want them it seems...
I think this will pass for you as well. Like the person above me suggested, a hobby might help. Distancing yourself slightly will help too. When we have crushes or when we are in love, it leaves us open to be exploited.
becoming a lesbian is the only answer
lol except for the unfortunate fact hat I'm not attracted to other girls :)
Folks, I'm just venting. I don't really blame them; except for perhaps doing so many stupid things and having me worrying about them but that's just boys being boys. I don't even spend that much time with them, just hanging out as 'one of the guys'; I'm just as happy with solitude and I've lots of hobbies. They're still always on my mind.
u just go with the flow.
Your horny.
“Life is brief.
Fall in love, maidens,
before the crimson bloom fades from your lips,
before the tides of passion cool within you,
for those of you who know no tomorrow. “Life is brief.
Fall in love, maidens,
before your raven tresses begin to fade,
before the flames in your hearts flicker and die,
for those to whom today will never return.”>just boys being boys
Don't take this the wrong way, but please don't think that such silly stereotypes are inherently true.
sounds anal
>>1
Please fall in love with me and I will love you a ton. I promise.
I don't know if I'm in the same situation as you, but once I get to know a guy a little more I end up liking them (initially I'd never found them attractive). All of a sudden it develops into a small physical attraction and I start noticing little traits about them. I'm a pretty shy girl when it comes to revealing my feelings, and I don't flirt as such, so I'm not just horny or whatever. And if my friend were to start dating one of these guys, I'm able to break off any inkling of romantic feelings I have for them.
Is this normal?