I like the girl next door? What do I do? (29)

1 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-07 06:24 ID:4fqZ03Fk

I grew up knowing his girl that lives right across the street from me. We never really talking since it was always my parents and her parents, who are really good friends by the way, that would always make conversation. I've known this girl since I moved into my house, which is basically all my life. Since we moved I never see or talk to her often anymore. She is really cute and I think she's hot. How should I come around and ask her out? I never see her anymore. I don't want to look like a dumbass and just come up to her and ask her out. Since we don't know each other that well. So I need some help. Thanks if you read it this far!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 06:29 ID:HLR8O3IF

Why would asking her out make you look like a dumbass? If you have any way of contacting her ask her out for lunch, not dinner to make things more casual. Say you just miss hanging around her and you want just to chill and talk with her.

3 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-07 06:31 ID:4fqZ03Fk

The thing is we were kids when we hung out. As the years kept going the less contact there was. now it's like I don't know her...(~_~)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 06:52 ID:Heaven

Well then that makes it even easier then, doesn't it?

  1. She already knows who you are, so you don't need an introduction or anything
  2. You haven't hung out for ages, so you've got an obvious reason to do so "let's grab lunch and catch up"
  3. You've got all those years in between of not hanging out, so you've got plenty of stuff to talk about while you hang out.

The big question is, why are you here on the internet, and not out doing something about it?

5 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-07 07:01 ID:4fqZ03Fk

cuz it's 10:59pm and she's sleeping...that's why.
Or that i'm hella shy too...
That's why theres a hopeless in front of my name.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 07:04 ID:HLR8O3IF

Get some sleep, grow some balls, and in the morning ask her out for lunch. The more you complicate it the more you will fuck up. Shyness is nothing.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 07:32 ID:XPivgCtI

Why don't you pay her a visit soon? It should be really easy as you know her from earlier in your life and she is your neighbor. You won't look like a dumbass, really.

8 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-07 07:36 ID:4fqZ03Fk

yeah, good idea. I was thinking myspace then i can like ask through there, which for me is easier since I get all nervous when talking to girls i like.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 07:48 ID:Heaven

UGH NO!! DO NOT ASK GIRLS OUT VIA MYSPACE. THAT IS LAME.
You're her neighbor for chrissake. Your discomfort in talking with her face to face needs to STOP and she'll likely be more apt to hit you up if you just buckled down, walked over there and asked her out in the morning than if you sent her a dinky little enternet message asking her out for pizza.
Good luck, noballs-kun.

10 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-07 08:32 ID:+I9SHV/i

Yeah, seriously.
Don't wuss out this time. You have to intercept and make your move!
Also, once she will see that you are sincere with all the nerveousness/stuttering, then she might find that cute and go out with you.
But if you do that Myspace move, then this game is over.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 08:45 ID:He3N9XdC

Lmao i cant belive you considered myspace.. oh wow.

But seriously just ask her. Maybe just bump into her as shes coming home from the library or where ever.

"heyheyhey! Havnt seen ya in ages! Wanna go grab lunch and catch up? hows it going? What ya been up to recently? Oh man let me tell ya, moving sucks. I hate being away from all my friends!" etc

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 08:48 ID:He3N9XdC

Continued from >>11

I can understand your shyness though, i used to be really shy then one day i realised something. I realised that if i want something i just have to go for it. Simple as that. Get up, walk over the road and knock on that door.

It sounds hard but seriously. Just stand up now as you're reading this, move about or something. Now walk out that door.

Good luck :)

13 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-07 08:51 ID:+I9SHV/i

>>12
Agreed. I mean, she is your neighbor, OP :/

14 Name: fart man : 2007-01-07 12:23 ID:6h2gTD87

u show ur cock from the window

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-07 13:49 ID:Heaven

>>14
fucking lol'd.
girl looks @ window... horror sound

Seriously, atleast you can get her IM mail and start chatting with her on MSN or AIM.

>"heyheyhey! Havnt seen ya in ages! Wanna go grab lunch and catch up? hows it going? What ya been up to recently? Oh man let me tell ya, moving sucks. I hate being away from all my friends!" etc

blueprint version of every single 'get together' line there was.

16 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-08 16:34 ID:PDpFy8oU

LOLz, Now i have to wait till next weekend to do all the things you guys said.

17 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-08 16:43 ID:Heaven

>>16
What the butt, dude?!

It takes you a week to walk to your neighbor's house?

I guess you have to take a car there then.

18 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-09 00:21 ID:PDpFy8oU

>>17

No ,I live 2hrs away from her (2hr drive that is).
But I can't drive over there cuz my parents won't let me take teh car all teh way down there.

19 Name: Anonymous Does Not Forgive : 2007-01-09 03:06 ID:Heaven

You are a liar, and I regret helping your stupid shy ass.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 04:50 ID:1TFZgfut

>>14 I did that before when I was like 10 haha

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 05:13 ID:HLR8O3IF

What a pussy, just take the car say you are going to a friends house and hope they don't check the miles.

22 Name: fart man : 2007-01-09 05:40 ID:6h2gTD87

>>20
good on u. did the gorgeous girl living next door get stimulated or wanked??

23 Name: fart man : 2007-01-09 07:56 ID:6h2gTD87

play with inflatable rubber doll instead.

24 Name: Hopeless romantic : 2007-01-17 06:21 ID:K6UO/XFM

For the love of GOD, HELP me.
No time, all work, no time to go out.

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-17 07:44 ID:Heaven

what you expect someone to give you a lift or something?

26 Name: fart man : 2007-01-17 10:05 ID:6h2gTD87

just break into her house, catch her, and slap her with ur cock

27 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-17 16:02 ID:8QjBwHfF

>>24

Christ dude you need some time for yourself D:

Is she even available?

28 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-01-17 22:09 ID:j2mUkWya

>>19 has point: 2 hours away hardly 'girl next door.' You evade or not answer question if she might be interested in you at all. What do you think?

Frigid Onanoko think this distance put significant strain on relation (you even have relation?) you wanna start. She gonna know that driving two hours to her, and two hours back is a bit much for just a chat.

If you can play cowboy, call her by phone and say ~ I remember how I liked you when we were neighbours and It'd be nice if we could have drink sometime. - then you have chance. You gonna have one shot, it win or lose. (remember cowboy sometimes unlucky too!) If you lose, if she no want, then you game over, otherwise you r stalker. really.

Maybe you lucky. Frigid Onanoko interested if you enough balls to do. Give you 1/3 chance success. Advise to go for it. So much for advice.

>>24, sounds pretty desperate, but FO think you no have problem that involve 'love of god.' Don't like unwarranted cry for help, make you sound like lazy boy. make you sound like idiot. Not sure if you deserve help actually, but haha! Frigid Onanoko really like to talk! nyah!

bye now.

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-08-25 20:30 ID:E++m1CGx

me Heart >>28 Frigid Onanoko ...Long Time!

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