I don't know if I'm in the same situation as you, but once I get to know a guy a little more I end up liking them (initially I'd never found them attractive). All of a sudden it develops into a small physical attraction and I start noticing little traits about them. I'm a pretty shy girl when it comes to revealing my feelings, and I don't flirt as such, so I'm not just horny or whatever. And if my friend were to start dating one of these guys, I'm able to break off any inkling of romantic feelings I have for them.

Is this normal?