talking to a shy girl (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 03:18 ID:Vltl0AG4

how would a shy guy talk to a shy girl?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 03:45 ID:VRGG0n1+

Through the internet. >:O

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 04:19 ID:DHTd7hBW

He should overcome his shyness and talk to her.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 10:11 ID:Vltl0AG4

ok... if the shy guy talks to the shy girl and the shy girl is too nervous to talk back and move away... what then?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 10:47 ID:7yvX0MjY

>>2
I lol'd.

>>4
Make her feel comfortable around you. Be interested in her, but don't over focus on her (it'll scare her away).
If you can do that, I will guarantee that 90% of the time she will fall for you.
I used be (still sortof) a shy girl.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 12:08 ID:+rTCgVfE

I'm doing an essay at the moment, for my final degree, on planning theory, the public interest and technical rationality. This subject area is considered to be the highest level of thought on assessing human development. I will consider this triviality of the human dilemma a challenge. As a purely intellectual challenge to myself, I will attempt to reduce the grand theorem of humanity's endeavour down to a single predicament involving a crush on a girl at school. Here we go.

If we take the grand concept of human development and it's infinitely nuanced objectives, values and definitions and reduce them to a single idea, I suppose you could say 'humans want stuff'. What they want, why they want it, how they get it and what happens when they do get it is not very well defined, simply because ecologically, humanity is infinitely nuanced.

There are no absolutes. We know that between the colours black and white we have an infinite number of shades of grey, therefore by virtue of this knowledge we understand that nothing is definite, but we can draw some conclusions and boundaries around what we find.

In this case we find you fancy a girl and that she's shy. Social interaction is bounded by an ability to communicate effectively on an interpersonal level, so I'd recommend that you talk to her as much as you like. The subject matter of conversation is infinitely nuanced, therefore your judgement is as good as anybody else's. Then, you ask her out on a date. There is no guarantee that she will say yes, as nothing can be absolutely determined, but you should, using your highly evolved brain, be able to vaguely assess whether the physical, social and economic parameters for mate assessment have been fulfilled by both parties.

Give it a shot and ask.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 12:38 ID:Vltl0AG4

>>6

oh shit, I read all that. It blew my mind.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 14:13 ID:Heaven

>>6
It's funny how through all of your verbose reasoning, it's just summed up in your last line.

> Give it a shot and ask.

First three paragraphs have no relevance whatsoever, and even your "advice" in the third line just states the obvious- not exactly helpful at all. It's ironic how you're telling him not to "beat around the bush", and yet that's just what you're doing in your post.

For the sake of actual people needing advice, I seriously hope that I've just fallen victim to a troll.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 14:15 ID:Heaven

*third paragraph..

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 18:09 ID:4p9edMP2

>>6
I loled, but you are right to some extend

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