This girl... (13)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 22:51 ID:LVu0E+1M

There's this girl I am interested in. She's 15 and I am 18. I know she doesn't like me, we know each other though, so she knows I exist. We have talked a couple of times but nothing more than that. My friend told me that she does not like anyone right now. What should I do?

Also, am I too old for her?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 23:20 ID:X9HByAH4

It's best not to push the issue. Talk with her and be friendly, but not overbearing. I know you've heard it a million times, but relax and be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she will not like you in the long run. You have no idea what she is thinking. You may gradually find out that you have a lot in common - even if you never date, you could be friends.

About the age... That's a variable thing. Age does not matter in love, but the fact that you bring it up makes me wonder how you really feel about it deep down. If she's still a high school underclassman and you're in college, you're pushing it. You may get heat from her parents too.

Don't worry. You'll know what to do.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 03:58 ID:abpA0d7w

If she doesn't like you, then change your attitude to her and don't lust after her. That would be a waste of time.

It will probably take at least a year to make her like you anyway.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 11:21 ID:Heaven

Too old.

5 Name: fart man : 2007-01-31 11:37 ID:rPvyO3/r

maybe u can say "hey, have u seen a guys cock?"

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 12:17 ID:soIF9rwJ

>>2
I'm a senior and she's a sophhmore, about to turn 16.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 13:17 ID:Mj8Hrx7L

>Age does not matter in love...

That's only the case if both parties are emotionally mature.
I seriously doubt that 15 year olds are looking for the type of relationship 18 year olds are looking for.

Fifteen year old girls are frivolous creatures.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 20:55 ID:2xlDe3Cp

>>7
I didn't think of that. :\

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-01 03:47 ID:5EzUrptb

>>1 you should get to know her better. I think your age difference is not a big issue. just think about your own time when you were 15.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-01 04:09 ID:Heaven

If 15 is below the legal age of consent where you live don't make a move on her, otherwise you'll be charged with statutory rape.

11 Name: fart man : 2007-02-01 04:38 ID:rPvyO3/r

>>7
why r u taking things so seriously? whats the problem about having an "emotionally immature" girl? he is only 18. not 30 or 40 though. 18 and 15 doesnt sound unnatural at all

>>10

>you'll be charged with statutory rape.

yes, if she sued him. but there r so many under age couples, and they r usually not chaged with statutory rape.

u guys r taking things too seriously. there r so many couples whose age is below 18, but they still enjoy being with each other. maybe u too. we cant deny their relationships because of their age, i think.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-01 20:27 ID:fq9aIMyR

>>11
SIGNED

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-02 07:11 ID:Heaven

>>11 needs to learn what "statutory rape" means

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