I loved her.. she didn't.. now I don't and she does. (20)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-17 08:00 ID:9nROgr2A

Back then when I was at school I used to like some girl.. this girl was cute and everything.. however she and I didn't have much in common ( regarding hobbies, likes, etc ).. however.. somehow I fell in love of how she was, and also on how she looked.

Then.. I somehow managed to confess my love to her.. I told her everything.. every single feeling I felt.. she didn't said a word. The time went on, I didn't even know if she liked me or not, she didn't tell yes or no also.. however she kept dating other guys.. and she telling me everything about their dates ( yeah like trying to give me jealous )... I felt really sad back then cause of this, then my friends told me about her.. that she's a "bad" girl, she hangs arround with a "Street Gang" that is famous here on my city.. and also they told me that she was playing with me... I didn't hear, however.. I did give up on her, because of all my best friends were worried about me, and about she playing with me ( also her best friends told me to stop trying, because she was going to hurt me. )

However.. after some time I saw her on a party.. I can't explain it, she just ran over me.. and told me that she liked me.. I don't know how to react to this.

I gave up on her because she didn't answer.. now I'm not too interested on being her toy..

What should I do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-17 08:46 ID:2hSSF3Ut

she sounds like bad mojo, you can do better

3 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-02-17 09:00 ID:eqtTOi8i

She was probably drunk or something.

Man, just forget about her. She probably just wants you because you got over her.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-17 09:16 ID:9J04iOmV

>>3 Agreed.

She will "love" you even more if you found someone else, so just forget about her and move on. Girls like that play those kinds of games. They suddenly want what they can't have anymore and once they get the guy back and make sure that his chances with another are ruined she will ditch him.

5 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-02-18 01:48 ID:cKr4X7sx

Frigid Onanoko think along similar vibes as >>4, but it not mean you need just leave it at that. She show little affection recently, right? see what she wants. Going for a drink just once is not a marriage proposal, you know. It can be fun seeing some background of a girl you like(d) it will help you understand better what you like in girls (in general.)

(tongue in cheek) don't go with her to the cafe where 'the gang' always meets!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-18 06:23 ID:9nROgr2A

today had a little chat with her, she told me that she liked me.. and she told me that she had changed ... that I was the main reason for her change.. all I could do was tell her that I used to feel something but her.. but not now..

she answered:

"I love you so much.. I won't let you disappear from my life!"+

.. I don't know what to do..

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-18 06:44 ID:9J04iOmV

If you no longer love her, why pretend? It is her loss now.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-18 07:49 ID:JhZedu3A

Give this changed person a chance, maybe your at the wrong side of the story and she should be the one posting here! Try not to get her hopes up only to be dumped.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-18 08:57 ID:RiNzZLL9

>>6

Give her time to prove she loves you so much. Don't bind yourself up with her too soon just to have her cutting you loose. That is, if you still are capable of digging up your feelings for her.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-18 10:07 ID:9nROgr2A

Just got home and she phonecalled me.. she asked about where I went out with my friends.. I didn't tell her because I didn't feel like letting her know what I do and when.. however she started crying.. I don't know.. I think she's faking something..

I don't understand what this girl actually wants!

>>8
I don't think I'm at the wrong side.. actually I suffered alot cause of her, she didn't answer me when I told her my feeligns but she kept dating other guys ( AND telling me about her dates ).

>>9
I was thinking on doing that, however... I think that I may be playing with fire.. and I don't want to get burnt.

11 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-02-18 15:47 ID:eqtTOi8i

Man, if you get this vibe that she is faking this, then it's probably not going to work out.

Because seriously, if she would've been in love with you back then, then she would've been all over you, but instead she decided to be an ass and make you hear about her dates with other dudes. Like come on, did she even apologize about her behavior?

I think it's not worth the trouble. Unless you want to be a goody-good doer and run back into her arms and hope for the best. Which probably isn't going to happen.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-19 17:41 ID:ITanOsOz

>>10
Tell her that you hang out at a particular place, preferably one where she will wander into unknowing of what it is, get raped multiple times and probably never leave the place either a)because she's dead/tied or b)because she'll love all the cock, good luck.

13 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-02-19 18:05 ID:cKr4X7sx

so you just ignore her? what a man!

Just because you no interested, (do you even know?) just because you no trust her, there no need to be unmannered (jerk - sorry FO think you acting like one.)

Frigid Onanoko also think smell a bit fishy, but mostly from way you describe things here anyway. You seem pretty biased. Don't know how much you unwittingly warp reality in writing. Still, manners.

bye now!

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-19 18:34 ID:ITanOsOz

>>13
A whore needs to receive manners, you must be 12.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-20 03:50 ID:9nROgr2A

She's kinds bipolar, right now I had a fight out of nowhere with this girl, she first came saying "Dear dear hi!" when I accepted to go out with a date with her.. and then she starts yellign at me out of nowhere.

Jeez. I don't get her at all. I think she's just playing arround, A friend of her told me to run while I can.. ( I don't knwo what she was trying to say )

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-20 04:26 ID:qHPm5Yb1

>A friend of her told me to run while I can.. ( I don't knwo what she was trying to say )

He is telling you to run stupid. Get away from that crazy bitch before the shit hits the fan. Girls can be crazy, becareful what they can do, if you don't believe me read that article.

http://jims-empire.com/main/?p=327

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-27 05:51 ID:nWb2ZgM1

A girl who likes to create drama will be drawn to a dramatic situation. Guys who are involved with other girls or guys who lose interest are usually the main spark for a girl to develop interest in a guy she had been stringing along.

Seriously, just get out of the situation -- cut your losses and run. She most definitely is not worth it, and the attention you get now that may seem gratifying to you will eventually wane when she finds a more exciting situation to go after, and you'll just be left with a broken heart.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-27 06:48 ID:Heaven

>>14

Don't hate on FO. Read some of his other posts and you can see how enlightening his thoughts are on a thread mostly filled with retards.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-27 15:54 ID:Heaven

>>18
Haha, you're right, FO's post do enlighten me on the mentality of a certain subset of retard that I wished were eradicated from this existance, and those posts shall always inspire me to pursue this goal.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-27 22:25 ID:Heaven

Try to have "fun" with her at least one time before you send her into oblivion. At least that would "pay" for your sufferings.

And remember she might be a "bitch". But she might not be that bad.

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