First off: Underage B& yeah I know
Anyhow, as of late, I have decided what I want to do after high school. I want to go to the San Francisco Conservatory of Music and study there, and then I want to join an orchestra after that. but my girlfriend plans on staying in the general area we live in to go to the local Cal State University and study Botanical Science. I have been with her for nearly 2 years and I've grown so much since I've been with her, and I love her more than anything, but I can't stay in the town I've lived in all 16 years of my life thus far. I need to leave this god-forsaken place and do what I need to, otherwise I end up like my dad. I can't ask her to leave with me and give up what she wants to do. Our lives are going in two opposite directions, and I don't want this to end. but I can't fucking stay here.
You're too young for it to have ever really began, but in your heart it was probably so good.
Why don't you ask her to go with yoy? If she loves you I am sure she can make a few adjustments.
I don't think there is an 'underage B&' rule on 4-ch. This is not 4chan. No NSFW warnings, "accept this only if you're 18+", and stuff. And it's not in the rules page. So chill out.
And yeah, talk about that with her.
Unless you are going to college early, You shouldn't have to worry so much about it. You can always do some searching and check to see if what she wants to achieve can be done where you want to go.
You still have another 2 years before heading off, you don't need to break up for something that may or may not happen 2 years from now.