i wanna talk to this person in a certain class, what will be the best way to do it? (college class...but not lecture...sum type of karate class or sumthing)
First, face the person when you have some kind of free time in class. Second, open your mouth. Third, say their name to get their attention. Fourth, talk to them.
tell them you lost your ipod and you would like their help in finding it, or otherwise...
Nah, that seems like too much work. It seems easier if he just smoke some happy plant and go to sleep.
A karate class? Okay.. How about a "So, how're you enjoying the class? Is this your first time practicing karate (or whatever)? Do you like it?" etc. Ask them stuff that'll get them talking about themselves. And don't just give back a "Oh, me too" and that's it. Keep going and get onto other topics that you two'll talk on about. But don't force the conversation.
How about you just "hi" and see how things go from there.
-It would be practical to find out if they are available as soon as possible (maybe from this person, maybe not), so you don't waste your time if they are taken.
-Find out what they are interested and try to start a conversation about that. Shared interest is even better. Don't talk about yourself unless they ask about you.
-Don't talk about geeky things if you are a man, and don't talk about feminine things if your are a woman. Unless you know they are interested in something of the nature.
-Offer or request assistance on classwork (don't know how this would work for a phys. ed. class) if either of you might need it.
-if YOU are shy or a poor speaker, practice speaking into a
mirror.
-if THEY are shy, you will need to carry on the bulk of conversations for a while until the become comfortable around you. Could take days to get them to open up.
-When you get to the point of requesting their company on a date or their phone number, don't act 'needy' of 'pushy'.
-Make eye contact, but don't stare
-DO NOT use pickup lines.
Hard to suggest any thing else without more information.
woah, im surprised that people actually help on this. thank you for the replies. well i really don't see an opportunity to do so.
again, just say "Hi" and for an opportunity, lets try...mhmm...after class, maybe? dont try complicate matters, you want to talk to this person, so talk.
kick her by accident lol that'll definitely start a conversation
kick her in the vagina.
grow some balls and stop listening to my chemical pansies