This woman is like, the woman I've always wanted. The real deal. Intelligent, nice, and deep. She's pretty, but... she's fat. And I can't help it but think of what would my family/friends say if I actually dated her. I really don't know what to do.
please don't make troll threads
please don't make troll posts. I'm serious here.
Yeah I need an overview of the terms what is a troll and I'm pretty sure I know what a flamer is. Are there any other ones?
Spammer, I guess is another. A troll, in case anyone is wondering, is a person who makes a post or a thread in order to provoke others into flaming. Well, at least that's what I think it is.
This is a serious question, but there is a real simple solution. If you like her then be with her. It doesn't not matter if your friends or family look down upon the fact that she is overweight. If she is as wonderful as you say she is, then I say you have it made. Besides, your friends and family should be behind you with whatever decision you make so you really have nothing to worry about. Goodluck
If you really love her, you would defend her if your friends or family said anything negative about her.
yup, if you want her you shouldnt care what your friends say about her weight. you can always start dating her and exercise/eat right etc and then hope that she may want to become involved in that. dont just say "id like you to lose weight", you need to lead by example
I once heard an amusing thing about men and women. Men will love a girl generally considered to be ugly as much as any girl- but they won't be seen with her outside of the house. Women who love their man will parade him around calling him the best looking man ever no matter how they look.
Love... Doesn't always happen because of appearances... Well mostly... While shallow people only look for appearances no matter what... People who are deeply in love with eachother don't care appearances as much. If you truely loved your girl friend,then you wouldn't care about this unless she is so overweight that it's bad for her health... If not you shouldn't even have posted this on the first place.
>>10
he isnt in true love with her, all he's talking about is starting to date her. i believe what youre saying about true love being stronger than appearances, but you have to admit that humans will pick someone they're interested in by their looks before they've had a chance to talk to them and find out if they're compatible.
if you feel so much ashamed because she isn't thin you aren't worth to have a good woman. People who are too much intrested in appearence and body are too unserious and not matured enough to love.
>>7
Bloody hell, what a terribly cliché statement.
>>10, >>12
I beg to differ.
Idiots are every single bit as much of a turn-off for me as simply unattractive women. With intelligent and unattractive women, I'm far too busy being repulsed by their sheer fugliness to get into anything even resembling an intimate relationship, while idiots with delicious breasts and cute smiles simply get on my nerves far too much to even associate with (In before somebody says I'm immature, callous, haven't experienced 'true love', or anything of the sort)
>>1, seeing as to how you seem to only be concerned by what others will think of you associating with a fat woman, and not by the fatness in and of it's self, I say you ought to tell everyone to put a sock in it and enjoy yourself.
Now, if only there were more attractively beautiful and intelligent women out there, for the likes of me.
Why? Fat people are ugly. They smell you will get smushed when you bone her.
how much does she weigh? more than you? just take her to yo gym and butt sex her in the treadmill
eat her shit until your penis turns into a helicopter
drink her urine until your butthole becomes the size of a supermassive black hole
>>14-17
Protip: You're not even close to being funny.
In fact, it's just sad how pathetically you fail.
its better than being a fatass otaku that probalby sits in front of his computer al day eating oreos and being looked down on society and every woman on the planet...including fat ones you cuntbag
yes?
Ogres are like onions. They have layers. If you can see beyond her seemingly hideous outside, you can fall in love with the core of the onion. Fiona and I have done so, and we now fuck every night. Let me tell you something. Fat chicks give good head. ;)
Regards,
Shrek
Everyone's favorite ogre
>>22
Ogres are like onions. They smell and make you cry.
I like getting fucked by a horse.
how bout fucking a fish?
fish fingers!!
You must have some really shitty friendships if you're afraid of what they'd think.
fat girls got their pros....they provide shade during the summer and you can use them as a heater in the winter
>>29 But they are fucking ugly. Ever seen a whale naked? Their skin is so fucking ugly. >.<
You guys are so shallow.
Fat girls are so sexy, so long as they're not rediculously large. There's lots to hug and snuggle to. They have such nice curves. A lot more comfier than any skinny girl can be. And they do not smell. Hell, they smell better than a lot of you guys.
OP, if you can't deal with her weight, move along. Let her find a guy that'll actually love her-- all of her. And to hell what the parents think, they're not dating her.
Look at the girl inside. YOu like her personality? Her maturity? Her wit and humor?
Then go for her.
>>34
Your opinion is completely biased. It's like me calling myself godly handsome with a 10 inch penis.
>>36
60-70 kg women are around the healthy weight range.
>And they do not smell.
But they do D:
Like fish. Explain that.
Healthy weight range is like 50-65. 70 is knocking on the obesity door.
It also depends on height.
>>35
Okay, so... Would my opinion still be biased if I were skinny? =\
And 70 is so not knocking on the obesity door.
It depends, of course. If you are 180cm height 70kg in weight okay. It also depends on your muscles. Do you have a tough job like carrying around 25kg sacks you gain a lot of muscles and, as we all know, muscle mass weights more as fat. It all depends.
id say healthy ranges are about 50-65 if your anywhere around 5'0 to 5'11
>>1
Help her lose weight. Don't make her lose weight for the sake of losing weight. Show her how to have a richer and healthier life.
Pick up some intense sport with her, cook her a few exquisite and superhealthy meals, and once she's hooked teach her how to make them herself. Also don't forget that it's unhealthy to lose weight too quickly. Plus, it'll make her skin sag, if her skin isn't given enough time to adapt: stretchmarks in reverse.
Remember: fat can be lost, but a horrible personality goes to the core. Fat can be lost within a year, but a headcase will take decades to cure. And a (figuratively speaking) lame person will take years to develop into something good. Years of learning, evolving and adapting. Good people don't grow on trees.
If her weight bothers you because of your family, rather than due to concern for her health... Something's seriously wrong with how you feel about her.
>Show her how to have a richer and healthier life.
I can just imagine OP's subtle attempts at that.
"Hey! Let's have salad for dinner!"
"The arcade's getting boring..Why don't we hang at the gym for a few hours?"
"Sorry, my car's broke, you'll have to walk home tonight."
"Just one more game of ddr..."
>>48
..wow.. yeah.. i hope OP isn't that retarded.
if he makes her feel she's being punished rather than rewarded, it'll backfire.