You can't convince someone if you are the mr. right. Just cause you like her doesn't mean you're right for her.

It sounds like you just want to get into her pants before she leaves. How on earth are you going to sustain a relationship let alone get into one with that kinda attitude. Inevitably it's going to end. Better not get into it.

Just befriend her. Go out and have fun.

Being Asian has nothing to do with anything.