Whats the big deal with "I love you" (33)

12 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-13 15:21 ID:S5qIOKxf

Oh my god... I just woke up this morning and I was going to write a post on this. Like I was thinking about "I Love you" and every other phrase that goes along with it.

In 48 Laws of Power, there is the law of "Keep all your intentions hidden" And it's painful to say but it's true. There are some girls that I honestly felt like I was falling in Love with.

But the moment you tell a girl that, the moment you reveal it, they lose all interest, even after they've made out with you. It pisses me off how girls in a sense "want" it to be hidden, they almost want to have a guy that doesn't Love them until much much later into the relationship.

Although as I write this I guess it would make sense. The woman wants to be known before she's told that she's worthy of being Loved, rather than being Loved for what can be known in the first few days. But at the same time, in my experience, women want to have sex in the first one or two weeks.

I think a lot of guys get thrown off by that. Lots of guys think Meet > Friends > Love > Sex. Whereas with girls it's like... Meet > Sex > Friends > Love. Sequentially a lot of guys think that you have to gradually move up to sex, but in reality, falling in Love is moving too fast more than having sex. Even with "nice" girls, or "innocent" girls.

>>5 True. I guess it's only good for when the girl finally Loves you first.

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