One of my fantasies has always been to date the 'girl next door'... of course, that was always more personality related than geographical. The other was, of course, being with an asian girl.
Well, I now live next door to a very cute Japanese girl who I'd try to be with in anyway possible. I know it may go nowhere, but I sure as hell ain't gonna just let this go. This is something I can't be talked out of.
However, the problem is this: Her family! Her mother, father, and two brothers are always in the house with her, and moreover, I hardly ever see her leave the house, and I don't think I've ever seen her leave without her family some distance behind. First time I saw her, I tried to get to know her but then after seeing her entire family come out of nowhere I just freaked out and could hardly utter a word.
So, any help? Like I said, I'm going for this. I wouldn't be able to live with my self if I didn't take a shot, but any help at all would be VERY appreciated.
Leave it.
learn kung fu to keep the family at bay when you force yourself upon her
>>1
So she's about 8 years old?
You know, this requires leaving your house.
Ah, try being nice to the family too. May be they will stop hating you.
I'd like to know how hold you are and how old she is... Also how long have both of you lived next door to each other? Will either of you be going to school in the fall?
>>1
SHE'S A HIKKI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
so, um, how far have you gotten? Have you at least introduced yourself, like do you know her name?
Is she American, or was she born/raised Nipponese?
I'm 21 and she at least looks to be around the same age. She's the only one that speaks English (and broken at that) while her mother speaks Japanese. The rest usually just don't talk.
This makes me think that they must have just moved here from Japan, because she and her brothers look old enough to have places of there own, but they probably just haven't been here long enough to get jobs. They definitely JUST moved in, they have only been there for two months, tops.
I have introduced myself to her, but we hardly get a chance to see each other. Like I say, her family is always close by. Of course, she smiles and laughs when I talk to her, but I'm sure that's just because she's not used to talking to people in English.
Do you know any Japanese? Maybe learn some phrases or something if you don't. Or just be like, "Hey, can you help me with this Japanese?" or something... It could work, or she might take offense. Ah, well, use your intuition, I guess.
I took two classes of Japanese, but I forgot 99 percent of it as soon as I was finished with it. I did pull my old textbook out for just this occasion, though.
I may try going with the "teach me Japanese" deal, though. That actually seems to be the best suggestion I've heard thus far, here or from others I've talked to.
Now I just gotta figure out a way to coax her to come outside without disturbing the rest of her family, or at least not get them suspicious.
Wow, a whole family and their adult children coming to the states?
I wonder what that's about. Either the parent(s) have just gotten a real good career opportunity and all their kids are NEETS, OR.... could they be running from something?...
Well, I guess you could go with a simple "yoroshiku onegai shimasu". Might be a fun way to start a Japanese-related conversation, but then you'd have to admit to being a weeaboo.
well, shou-ga-nai, it'll happen sooner or later.
hai hai, shou-ga-nai indeed. actually, i don't think that the 'teach me japanese' thing is a good idea. i believe it would be a better idea if YOU offered to teach her some english.
What no News?????
Where are you hiding the7k??????
This is no time for hiding under the bed, masturbating. This is time for stalking attractive girls and then posting about it on the internet!!!!
Come on!! You can do it! Tell us more about her, anyway.
Did you say she was ASIAN?!?!??!?!?!?!!
If you go for strategy of Japanese lessons, at least do it right. You need some goal other than tutor sessions going hentai, such as passing some sort of exam. You should know that chances are probably much higher than 2 put of 3 that you gonna get tutorials from her brothers instead. For FO, this strategy sound very cheesy and transparent. You need consider that family, they in strange environment and all they really certain of right now is their own family. They likely a bit more strict than usual (as in, in Japan) and they gonna be weary for odd requests like "please teach me some japanese."
Also the mentioning random Japanese quotes, better to leave it until they invited you for a drink or something like that. Only then is there room for you to show off and impress. Otherwise it just awkward.
This not helping you very much, no? Frigid Onanoko being such a bummer now (nyah!) Cannot really help you. Obviously they are neighbours, so every now and then there should be neighbourhood parties or community meetings. Perfect reason to invite them for that and get to know them. This most appropriate thing FO can come up with, sorry it not very much.
saying bye now!
Why does Frigid Onanoko always speak in 3rd person?
>>19
He has a warped sense of cute.
FYI FO, you sound totally condescending.
Anyway, back to topic.
What's she like?
Height? Proportions, Hair, Clothing?
Details!
I think he abandoned us and this thread... pity... it was somehow getting good.
bah.
あなたは彼女が「私はあなたを見てとあなたについて知りたい。私のちんこの方日本人のちんこのよりが大きいですよ」だと言えなくてはいけないですよ！
私のちんこの方が24さんのより大きいでございますよ！
why not just fire up the grill and ask her to come by for an oldschool american bbq
....She might be a Hikikomori...if you rarely see her leave the house...give us details!...wait...O_O is this thread abandoned?!?! GAHH!! THE OUTRAGE!!