>>10
OP = Original Poster (Referring to you...)

He's saying that you need more details in your post than just:

"I'm staying away from a friend I have feelings with... I can't get her anything for her birthday, do you think if I stay away our friendship will come back"...

That barely is a post, let alone near descriptive enough of your situation for anyone to begin to answer...

(and what's with the "ii" every time you mean to type the letter "I"...?)