i love my sister (24)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-16 18:14 ID:cd+UwLdP

Over the past year I've been trying to lie to myself, to think on something else, even got laid and tried to fall in love with other girls, anything but admitting what I, deep down inside, already knew.

I love my sister. Not in the way most brothers love their sisters, but in the way a man loves a woman. Not because of some silly fetish either; when I say love, I mean real, "I'll go to the end of the world for you" love.

My sister is only one year younger than me, making her 20, and currently doesn't have a boyfriend. She's pretty, at least to my eyes, but this is not fueling this. It's her personality. I like no other girl this much. We always had a lot of chemistry, it's as if we were engineered to be together. Only we happened to share our parents. I'm sure if we had been born in different families, we would be the happiest couple in the world right now.

Lately, I realized I could not give up on this, but I'm kind of scared. I know this is fucked up. But I don't know what to do. I've been avoiding her for a couple of weeks, and this is causing her suffering, which in turn breaks my heart. I don't know if I should confess my love and face the consequences of experiencing a kind of love that's considered unacceptable in our society, even from her, or just let it pass and die inside.

Help me /love/, what should I do? I think she may be feeling something similar for me becuase we are very close and she considers me attractive, but I don't know to what extent this may only be wishful thinking on my part. Knowing her, I'm sure she won't be angry at me if I tell her how I feel, but I don't know for sure if she'll feel the same about me. I'm positive our parents and everybody else in our family and community will oppose such love, but if she loves me, I'm willing to face all of them or move to some other country to start a new life with her. But I wouldn't want to put pressure on her or make her feel uneasy, so while I think I should confess, I'm not 100% sure and I don't know to what extent what I think is distorted by my strong affection for her.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-16 19:43 ID:Heaven

This comes up quite a bit here.
>>1-san,
you need to learn that INCEST IS BAD (and illegal). I would highly recommend that you talk to your local psychologist about your feelings.

some sites that might help:
http://www.psychology.com/
www.psywww.com/resource/selfhelp.htm

3 Name: 25 year old virgin : 2007-07-16 20:28 ID:TfyhdqfN

Copy pasta from 4chan's /lounge/.
http://dis.4chan.org/lounge/#10

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-16 22:51 ID:iLUm1YGl

>>1

Why don't you go ahead and tell her, explaining why you feel you need to stay away from her? It can't be easy, I'm sure of that. It's very unusual for siblings who were raised together to be attracted to each other, but not so unusual for siblings raised apart. Either way, there's no denying the social obstacle, but that doesn't stop you from communicating with each other, which is usually always a good thing. If she does hold mutual feelings, it'll be a relief for both of you to communicate them, no?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-17 03:29 ID:Heaven

>>4-san

I have to think that something like that would most likely just scare her witless.

If the person in question need to talk to anyone it should be a psychologist

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-17 05:13 ID:dq/9Ug5D

>>5

Well, I don't know her or her relationship to >>1 any better than >>1's described it, but it sounds that if the two of them are really close then she wouldn't be scared off by it.

Maybe you're right though, it might be safer if you talk with someone else about it before proceeding, someone you can trust to maintain confidentiality.

7 Name: ND : 2007-07-18 05:33 ID:fobysCFW

I personally don't condone incest, but I'll say right now that It's not uncommon or unheard of for siblings to sexually explore each other. However, I'll tell you now that unless you live in redneck country, it's not going to get past that.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-19 15:18 ID:FV4Ed5YI

follow your heart, not your mind

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-19 23:18 ID:Heaven

>>9

Troll

11 Name: Harry Potter : 2007-07-19 23:41 ID:vKv7kbNR

talk to her, about your feelings and how she feels about you. If she doesn't feel the same way, fine. at least you can say to yourself, it's DEF not gonna happen rather than this uncertainty.

btw, don't have kids :S.

12 Name: supermum : 2007-07-19 23:48 ID:4/JGOxIp

>>10

troll

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-20 18:34 ID:Heaven

follow your common sense, not your family tree

14 Name: ND : 2007-07-21 04:04 ID:SQhl3c6j

Anyways, if she doesn't mind and you don't mind and you can keep everything low key, I'd say sure, whatever. Just don't have kids. Otherwise you'll end up having babies with thirteen toes and weird genetics.

15 Name: ND : 2007-07-21 04:05 ID:SQhl3c6j

And >>10, how is that a troll? O_O

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-21 08:37 ID:AAOHnK0s

Hi, i had the same problem as you, except it was the other way around. I was the sister and it was my brother who confessed his feelings to me (i have a thread up on here if you want to look at it to get more insight into my situation. I don't update it anymore b/c the majority of posters here were just being mean instead of helpful). Anyways, me and my brother are attempting a romantic relationship right now. I'm not going to go through the excrutiating details but it took a LOT of resisting, debating, frustration, mind games, etc. to get us to where we are now. Where we are now is not any easier mind you but we are both very much in love. There's no going back now for us.

Having said all that I don't recommend you tell your sister your feelings. Just keep it to yourself. It will open up a can of worms and will probably make your sister feel very confused, pressured, guilty or even disgusted with you. You have no idea how she will react and do you really want to risk your relationship with her? Even though me and my brother are very happy in our relationship there will always ALWAYS be a constant worry/anxiety about other people finding out about us and us being forced to separate (not to mention the shame we will feel). Believe me, as much as i love my brother now, i think i was happier not knowing that he loved me. At least i never had to worry about losing him.

P.S I hope you're not just poking fun at my situation b/c your situation sounds TOO similar to how mine was.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-21 09:38 ID:aGtoW3GV

>>16

I'm glad you gave an update, I had been wondering how things turned out for you.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-21 13:47 ID:rAkPtMYc

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-21 15:01 ID:Heaven

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20 Name: ND : 2007-07-22 02:45 ID:zKXw9HSi

>>18 O_O ;;;

21 Name: fartman : 2007-07-23 19:23 ID:bCyI9pXe

dont go any ahead. i have a feeling that u may lose any chance to get out of the situation(ie u love ur sister) once u go any farther.
maybe u can leave home and live somewhere very far from ur sister

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24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-26 14:55 ID:RjJM0a8P

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