i have a crush on this girl which my friend has a crush on her too long before i did.so now we wanted to go out together during the dance party.but she told me she already text my friend that if she goes to the dance she would go as his date becuse of her friends forcing her to.now she tells me that she really dislike the idea of going to the dance with him and rather go with me.any idea what should i do?

Sounds like you aren't naturally good with women. So your options are:

1) Find another girl
2) Get her drunk and drag her to your room

Your call.

If she seriously doesn't want to go with your friend to this dance, but you & her both don't want to piss off the friend... Perhaps one of you could find someone else wanting to go with that friend... Even if you don't have any girls you know that would go w/ your friend, perhaps knows a girl who would go with the friend in her place...

(And as far as already agreeing to go w/ him... She could always tell a little lie and say that she already agreed to go w/ you beforehand, and just felt too bad for your friend and didn't have the courage to tell him that until now...)

OP here
the guy has a crush on this girl for over 2 years already...and she agreed*so called*,i think he won't change his date for his life.and the girl won't lie...and she don't want to hurt his feelings cuz she don't really have any feelings for him at all and kept pushing him away and hurt him.that's y she don't wan t to hurt him anymore.