The one? (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-07 17:38 ID:0F5niGNx

There is only one thing I regret in my entire life. When I was in college, a couple of years back, there was this girl. Me and her really clicked. We both liked each other, even I could tell that and I usually suck at noticing things like that. But I just didn't have the courage to try and start a relationship with her, and she was even shyer than me so nothing was ever going to be initiated from her end.

It's been 2 or 3 years since then now. I've never really gotten over the idea that I've missed "the one". Does anyone even believe in that stuff anymore or am I just needlessly kidding myself?

I don't even know why I'm writing this post really. Ranting maybe? I dunno. Maybe I just feel like it needed to be said, even if it is just to a bunch of random strangers on the internet.

Should I just stop whining and get over myself? Or should I try to get back in contact with her? Even if I did manage to find her again, would I just come across as a creepy stalker in doing so?

Well anyway, thanks to anyone who took the time to read.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-07 17:43 ID:jmXTxGKv

Don't believe she's the only one"for you. That is needlessly kidding yourself. However, that doesn't mean you should give up on her. If you come across the right way, it won't be creepy. Just call her up and say, "Oh, I happened to be in town, want to go out for a cup of coffee and catch up?"

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-07 22:55 ID:mFHeXTFQ

i was in the same situation as you. about a years back there was a girl who was prefect match for me but i was too stupid to realize it, only a few months later my friend told me she liked me. Now in the current time she has a boy friend and im going fight all odds to win her back. my advice to you is to confront her it's better then having that chimp on your shoulder

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-07 23:25 ID:v0w1UHqU

You're not a creepy stalker, you just want to meet an old friend.

Stop whining, get over yourself and try to find her. Definitely better than having to fight the regret of not trying. Nothing to lose, am I right?

And I have a feeling you came to this site because you think you should do it, but want to hear it from someone else... anyway, good luck!

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-10 00:10 ID:KL9BhtXr

Yeah, I believe you should too. Just realize, that time may have changed her, and she might have a boyfriend now. If that sort of thing happens, at least you can move on with your life though. You sound like a decent person, and you probably should definately try to get in touch with her if you feel the need to.

>>3
Similar situation, I met a guy at a computer camp (Aha.) a month ago, that I just realized, I probably fell in love with. I don't even know his last name, but I still remember who he is and stuff.
All that stuff about having no regrets and "going for it" really is true.

6 Name: 5 : 2007-08-10 00:24 ID:gfkpr+Hi

>>3
Oh, forgot to mention, good luck!! It's an interesting situation you're in, and you've decided to go for it. Just don't do anything too rash ^_^

>>1
Good luck to you in finding her, as well. I really hope you two can meet up again and that you at least leave with no regrets (But it'd be great if you left with a new girlfriend too XD)

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