Yeah, yeah, I know it's been mentioned before... But I ejaculate way too soon. There are two possible/probable reasons, I think. One is that I jack off too much. The other is that I am not circumcised, so I still have the sensation that I'm supposed to have down there. Also, when I jack off, it's less of a stroke and more of a brutal full arm all six inches skin moving up and down sort of thing, and never with lube or a condom on. I've heard of some creme stuff I can put on myself to desensitize, but I'm looking for something more natural, you know?

hmm from what i heard NOT getting circumsized makes you come much later than people who are cut

i always thought i come pretty fast because i am circumsized

Jacking off too much usually desensitizes a person. Jack off more.

And if you are worried about it being to soon, Just let it out and try again right away. your penis is more likely to ejaculate later than normal when you are doing it a second time.

Practice, breath go slow, relax, count your strokes and work up a rhythm where you let your "excess orgasm" out with every breath/stroke.

I doubt circumcision is your problem, you're probably just too nervous/trying too hard.

>>4 is right.

BREATHE.

Seriously, be conscious of your breathing, you'll probably find you shallow-breathe when you're on-the-job.

Concentrate on taking good, deep lung-fulls.

It makes control a LOT easier.

>hmm from what i heard NOT getting circumsized makes you come much later than people who are cut

That's the opposite of what I've heard, because circumcision usually results in desensitizing the head to a certain degree (because most people mistreat their penis and don't properly take care of its skin: no foreskin = no auto-cover to keep the skin from drying out too much - lotion and vaseline need to be thoroughly applied daily, and that's no joke nor about masturbation).

>>3-5 are right indeed. Especially 4-5.