why does your cousin care so much about you and your gf?? is he attracted to your gf at all?
.... Wow this thread died fast, it's because all of the Densha wanna bees thats why. Well stop trying to make a Densha story and make one of your own. The fact that its a movie, a series ,a special, a manga, a book and it actually happened means that it has gone a far way and this is a Love Story that has ended already, it's time to create your own love story. Peace.
-Tell your girlfriend the truth about you if she doesn't allready know, your past and that you're different now, whatever the hell that's supposed to mean.
-Tell her not to listen to this cousin of hers because he's just trying to get in your way for whatever reason, maybe he just doesn't like you.
-Just be cool about it, be cooool. Show that you are a really nice and decent guy so that this fucking cousin will eventually have to be ashamed of accusing you. If the rest of her family loves you because they see that you're a great guy who makes your girlfriend happy they will eventually turn on this foulmouthed asshole.
-Do not talk shit about the asshole, say nothing bad about him neither to your friends, your girlfriends family nor your own, just make sure your girlfriend understands that he's just wrong.
In time she will realize what is going on and so will everyone else, you just have to endure and stay strong. Teaching idiots a lesson(beating up, angrily confronting etc.) never works in the short run, and you don't have the situation here to wait for a long run to pay off. As I said just be cool and show by example.
It will work out fine if you do.
> for some reason judges me
> the typical "socially inclined rich guy" whos smart and ignorant and only cares about social strata... and hes egocentric he is one huge ass thats trying to take the world inside
Cut back on the hypocrisy and you might get a little more sympathy.
A little honesty on your part could also go a long way.
it is possible the dude is just jealous of your happiness. he probably has a shitty love live and by ruining yours he may feel better because he isnt the only one suffering.
Ummm... My only real question here is what's wrong with playing DDR and wearing army boots? Does this somehow make you a bad person? I play DDR... Am I horrible now?
I guess in some circles that's simply not the cool shit and it implies you're a fucking loser somehow.
He'll run his own mouth right into the ground eventually. Even if your girlfriend cries, don't react on it so seriously, knowing already how stupid the reason is. Just stay cool and comfort her, get her on other thoughts.
>i already tried talking to him but he just played along till my "sources" told me he just did that to let my guard down so itll be easier to bring me down...
I lol'd. This line just sounded so ghetto.
And after just viewing your myspace, I'd have to say you look pretty ghetto too. Who can blame her cousin for trying to keep her from a one eyed monster?
>>14 is right.
Your (and her cousin's) problem is more probably that you want to die than that you played DDR years ago.
Wow, yeah, you know if I had only realized you were this dark hearted emo-dude wanting to die, my answer would have been very different....
So here's a new outline for you: FUCK EMO BULLSHIT
To a certain degree I can definately understand your girlfriends cousin now, even if his approach suck cocks.
You need to stop wanting to die because of your past, whatever happened there, it's gone now. And you need to start wanting to live for your girlfriend. And that change is going to transform you, inside out. Don't let the past define who you are, live today for the future.
If you don't, you've totally lost my backing.
So what the fuck am I supposed to believe then, you must realize the importance of making a good impression, and I don't know you from anything except what you've said here and what I found in that link.
Sure it's just a myspace or whatever but it's about YOU nonetheless, it's the front you have chosen to represent yourself, and if that's sooo not you anymore why don't you just fucking change it?
And in general be sure that the way you dress and act and talk really reflects that you are a happy, sane and stable person, or else you really can't blame people for thinking otherwise.
Seriously you can't, people simple are like that and there's nothing we can do about it. Then again I don't really see why we should make hints with our appearance and acting towards a way of life we don't stand for. Understand what I mean? It's just stupid.
So you can rave all you want, I understand you're upset but you're sort of setting yourself up.
> so before you go around judging people look at your own freaking self cuz you guys NEED a serious rain check
yeah i know, phoenix wright was sold out when i got to the store :(
>>20 lmao
>>18 I have to agree with >>18 here. But anyway, I doubt that your girlfriend's cousin is really as horrible as you say he is. Before you can have people stop judging you and accept you, you need to stop judging them and accept them first. In this thread, you were the first to judge as well as most frequent. Re-read your posts, you'll see.
Anyway, you said you didn't have a problem with this cousin guy, but clearly, you dislike him. You said you tried talking to him, but what was the conversation about? Try confronting this guy again. Everyone has a motive for doing things. No one does something just because they want to be an jerk. He must have a motive. Find out. Don't let things get violent. If he hits you, let him, if that's the only way to have him stop. Chances are, if you lay a finger on him, it will make things so much worse for you. Does he realize what he's doing is hurting your girlfriend? If that doesn't help, you're out of luck. You just have to wait until your girlfriend is mature enough to not let something like that bother her.
If you truly want to put this matter at an end, then you have no choice but to stay calm and think clearly. No one here really cares about your past or what you do or what you look like. You're letting your ego get to you, taking this way too personally.
By the way, please, if you're not gonna use caps or spell things correctly enough for me to decipher, at least put some grammar to good use. You're giving me a hell of a time figuring out what the hell you're trying to say half the time.
I completely agree with >>21 here
I dont really think you should mind her cousin as to fighting with him, instead of fighting him you should teach her how 2 defend her self agenst him. Fighting for her could make her less independent & lean more onto u.
& i dont see why though you all have the need to use vulgar language in here! People come here for help, not to be judged.
Yeah you seem like a sensible person when everything comes around, I won't look at who you were but who you want to and try to be, and you're showing the right attitude. You have my blessing, best of luck to you.