I recently pulled a very beautiful girl I had fancied for ages on a night out and we ended up going back to her place.
I’d wanted to nail this girl for months so I was under a bit of pressure to perform. After some awkward fooling around and uncomfortable sex I was spent.
I didn’t really know what to do so I decided it was better to leave. I don’t know what came over me but for some reason I stood up, shook her hand (yes shook her hand) and said: “Well played,” before walking out of the door with my trousers under my arm.
I honestly don’t know why I did it but as soon as I left I dropped to my knees in embarrassment and cried like a girl. I really want to see this girl again but she won’t speak to me. What can I do?
WTF? After doing something like that, she probably thinks you just wanted to get in her pants for a one night stand. If you really want to get together with her for any kind of relationship, you need to tell her that you're serious about her. She probably won't believe you after doing something like that. Girls are sensitive about sex and everything surrounding it.
What I'd do in your situation is send her a bouquet of roses with a note attatched stating how embarrassed you are at your prior behavior and how you honestly care for her and want to see her again. Ask her to call you, because you feel you need her to forgive you for your actions. You might look a little dependent and/or clingy, but it at least lets her see your feelings and keeps you from having to ackwardly visit her in person and explain yourself. If you're able to actually go see her, that might be better than a letter, though...
Show some guts and let her know what a wimp you were!!
I can't believe someone would actually do that, but #2's advice seems sound.
kill yourself
>>1-12
Well played, guys, I LOL'd.
>>1
WHAT THE HELL?! I can't believe you did that. I laughed so hard when I read it. In any case, listen to >>2. Did /b/ put you up to it? I wonder what she thinks... maybe she thinks she's sexually inadequate and your "well played" was sarcastic?
In any case, I think the phrase "hahaha oh wow" works perfectly here.
Also, listen to >>2.
You've blown it. For both your dignity, move on.