Younger girl? (13)

1 Name: Wonder : 2007-09-04 23:27 ID:dwnS8e0k

I'm looking for some advice on whether to proccede or not...

I'd signed up on a dating website some time back, I rarely visit it, and it's not been terribly promising so far, but recently, someone joined the site who's physically closeby to me..

They also seem fairly friendly... Problem is, they mentioned being "in school", while I've graduated college... She seems friendly, and mentioned texting on her cellphone if I wanted to...

Should I proceede, and get to know her better? Or should I immediately ask her age, and get that out of the way right now, so I'm not led along or anything?

I've had bad experiences with semi-long distance relationships in the past (1 hr is the furthest I'd like to try, after the bad experience I had spending gas money on someone who wasn't serious...

I'm just worried that frankly (no offense to anyone who fits this description), I'm dealing with a jr. high kid or something..

But on the other hand... She did join a dating type website... So I'm taking that with a grain of salt...

Thanks for any feedback, all...

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-04 23:53 ID:4fROP6Q+

So this dating website doesn't say age? Or do you think she is lying about age?

Anyway. You don't have to ask her age right out. You could instead ask about school and such. Look for clues on the kind of schooling she is currently in. Like if she lives in a dorm or heads to school on a bus(School bus, city transportation, etc).

You could also tell her your age(at an appropriate time.) This may help her to become truthful about her age(if she's lying) or feel guilty if she's lying.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 02:13 ID:iTURLnjh

I know plenty of college age people dating 14-15 year olds, and one guy dating a 13 year old and they're all happy couples. I'd say give it a shot if she is young, you may never know...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 02:20 ID:4fROP6Q+

13?! I mean, I can atleast understand 15, maybe 14, but 13? too young.

Besides, OP is done with college. So now he's past college age.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 02:24 ID:iTURLnjh

>>4

Actually that specific guy just got out of college. I know if you look at the two ages on paper it seems outrageous, but people aren't numbers. People are people, and they look like fine people together.

6 Name: Wonder : 2007-09-05 02:27 ID:dwnS8e0k

The website's not very mainstream, so while it provides a spot for the age to be input in your profile, she didn't put one, and for "occupation", she put "in school", which is why I wondered...

I think I'm going to proceed, since from the PM she sent me on the site, she's only like 1 hour away from me, which would be great for me if something did work out between us, if she proceeds... It'd be nice to have someone to text again, to make some actual use of the txts I pay for every month, actually

7 Name: Wonder : 2007-09-05 02:30 ID:dwnS8e0k

(Might I add, by the way that while I'd consider someone 17+, I really don't think that younger would be wise, considering I'm 25, actually..)

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 03:07 ID:4fROP6Q+

>>7
Well, we got the whole too young disagreement out of the way.
Anyways, you probably should talk to her. I mean, I'm sure you'll figure out enough about her to atleast figure if she's in a age group you deem okay.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 04:41 ID:YtBefjxR

Which dating site is this? All the ones I know restrict to 18+ (even though younger is legal in various countries.)

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-07-16 22:41 ID:wTaMby+D

the mother of the son of god was age-14. At one time she was a virgin; and she might have had childen before Gay'Zeus was born. Plus the guy she was traveling with was much OLDER than a TEENAGER, and NOT married to Marry, and DIDN'T knock her up? (because g'ODD Spermed Marry's eggs)

Stop looking for some advice and go get your hole(s) wet.
Be aware of STDs! (and an OLD g'ODD that can Sperm young eggs)

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-07-16 23:04 ID:Xc72cyph

>>10
what the fuck is wrong with you sir

12 Name: Mr Write : 2011-07-17 03:07 ID:Heaven

>>10

Congrats, kid. You've now proven to the internet community that you have less of a life than they do. You may now proceed to fully realize this yourself, and go cry in the corner while you contemplate the implications; specifically, your value as a human being.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-08-25 17:16 ID:fyvdxUAG

>"Or should I immediately ask her age"

Text her, about spending-the-night; and ask her to BUY the Beer. If the 21-yr old person "lost" her ID, then tease her that you do not believe she is 21. If she wants to get laid, she will IMMEDIATELY tell you her age.

>"the bad experience I had spending gas money on someone who wasn't serious..."

I bet you won't do that agina. Right?? Never go Broke to impress a chick! It is better to be honest with your-Slef, and with her, about the repeated one-way cost of gas. For all you know she has a car too; and has the same gas-money issues. Buses run in most large cities. Some large cities have subways, lite-rail, etc. Riding a bike is quicker than walking.

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