The title pretty much says it all. i dont know what to do. like, i dont see him much these days and we have gotten more distant from eachother. however, his sister works up the road from where i live and im there pretty often so we always talk for abit. ive developed a slight crush on her. should i ask her out or not? even if i did she would probably say no because im friends with her brother. help please. im really confused as to what i should do.

If you want to ask her out you should ask your friend's permission first.

Hell, just fuck your friend. Pink is pink, boy.

>>3
His friend is a male. Males don't have pink. Only stink.
And a penis. But that's not pink either.

>>2

I agree

>>2>>5

yeah but hes annoying and i dont think he likes me much anymore. id call us more like aqquantences than friends. like, we hardly see eachother these days. besides, i know he would hate me going out with her. but still, i really want to

What's most important is not what he thinks about it, what's most important is whether she would say yes - if you know she'd say yes then you need to talk to the brother before you ask her out. And chances are if he said no it wouldn't make a difference to her decision.

1. If it were a friend, ask.
2. If it's some guy you don't like much/talk to, don't bother asking him. Go for it.
3. If the guy is close to his sister and he doesn't like you, expect the worst and don't expect to get with the girl.
4. If the guy is significantly bigger than you and doesn't like you, get on the girls good side and make sure she stands up for you. Although you'll be known as the one that wears the dress in the relationship if it comes to it. Also keep in mind, if she cries, you're probably dead.

What her sister does is not your "friend"'s problem. However, it's likely that he won't make things easy,... So just go for it and be ready for some difficulties ahead. But you are not doing anything morally wrong.

Some guy I hadn't talked to for about 3 years was hitting on my sister on facebook. Dropped a message on his wall saying that if he didn't stop, I'd have to make art out of his face (Although I was nice about it:}).

He stopped pretty quick ;p

Guys rules dictate you can't even imagine the sister shit. But if you two really arent friends, then I guess the rule doesnt apply.

Just stick to your own siblings, it's much more satisfying.

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Friends' siblings are off-limits. Period.

However, if you are not friends with him anymore, he should have no say over who his sister can date. Since when do we let other people make decisions for us?

I have never heard of such rules. I think if one of my friends wanted to date my sister (it's impossible now because she's married) I would be okay with it as long as he wasn't an asshole.

A friend of mine dates my sister,... They have been together for years, and seem quite happy.

He did ask if it was a problem for me, and I replied that as long as they don't sever ties, in case of break up, I'm happy.