I think my best friends ex likes me (8)

1 Name: ... : 2007-11-18 05:50 ID:gIcRqYZ4

after they broke up, shes always been wanting to be with me. she gives longer hugs than usual, always asking me to help her with simple tasks, telling me whats on her mind as people in a relationship would tell eachother. we have the same interests, we used to hang out (not as much as now). it used to be once maybe every 2 months, now its before class all the time at school, calls me more than 5 times a day. But I'm currently in love with someone else...(not in an actual relationship with anyone yet though. I wouldn't feel to comfortable going out with her because she just broke up with my best friend.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-18 07:08 ID:+I1+O6xv

As long as it does not become uncomfortable with her interest in you, there's no problem. You don't need to make anything of it. If she's making subtle passes at you, pretend you don't notice. If she openly moves on you, just tell her the truth: You're in love with someone else, and seeing how she's your best friends ex, it's a no fly zone anyway.

It's just absolutely amazing to me how she can, even in her mind, see anything happening between you two, especially so soon. In fact I'm kind of doubtful she's actually interested in you that way, but then again I'm not this person, I don't know her.
And girls sometimes, tend to be a mystery to me...

So well, obviously don't go out with her, OR ANYTHING ELSE, ignore your dick here, in case it's giving you ideas or whatever.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-19 03:25 ID:cNkUjbKX

she could just be using you for emotional support since she no longer has a b/f

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-20 04:12 ID:pjwfokXu

>>3 is probably right. Of course, now that she's vulnerable, it would probably be easy to take advantage of her. But please, there are enough assholes in this world; don't do anything with her.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-20 11:42 ID:Heaven

Doing something with her won't increase the number of assholes in the world, as he would have to have been one already to even consider it.

6 Name: ... : 2007-11-21 07:06 ID:gIcRqYZ4

- 3 - true...
- 2 - even of she did, I couldn't

damn hyperlinks and lack of knowledge on hyperlinks....

7 Name: ... : 2007-11-27 00:40 ID:gIcRqYZ4

Now that I dont love anyone and that Im 100% single she says shes happier.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-27 05:27 ID:CGYoDUIz

Bros before Ho's man. I'd talk over with your BF. If he's cool with it, god ahead.

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