We are normal people, we are best friends, lovers, and soon to be husband and wife. We are more than just bed partners, a bed partner is someone you don't care about let alone marry. The word of love, does not even begin to describe how I feel for him. Love is an understatement. This feeling is as rare as seeing Nessie! My question was not necessarily about sex, it was a question of anything that would bring more pleasure.

Most people don't understand our relationship. Sixty years ago we would probably be the normal standard for a healthy couple and we would be a dime a dozen, but in this day in age I think we are a dying breed.

We are just old fashioned in a lot of ways. I was always raised to believe that the man gets "the big piece of chicken". If I were a progressive career woman things would be different, but if I don't work or at least as hard as he does then what business do I have slacking off and doing nothing for him? It's a two way street. I've got a good man and I would be a fool to be lazy, take it all for granted and expect everything but give nothing. A man like him deserves everything I've got to give. I also feel that I deserve what he has to give, we both work hard for each other in different ways. The difference creates a balance and we are as equal as we are in height.

And >>8, thank you for your reply...I think it be the most helpful.