Hey, 4-ch. Who gave you your first kiss (family doesn't count (obviously)), how old were you, what location, and what was it like? For the sake of this thread, being kissed on the cheek counts, even though I know some people don't consider it to.
Also, do you ever have any desires to be kissed by a certain someone (friend, celebrity, type of person, etc.)?
Funny this thread appeared... My first on the cheek was last night. First two actually. Not at midnight though. First was a girl who I've known for a few years but hadn't talked to in a year. Second was a girl who I'm hoping will be my first REAL one, urged on by the first girl, who is trying to help me along.
And yes, I received flack later for not kissing the girl I'm interested in at midnight. But hey, what happened was awesome.
First kiss sucked. I was in kintergarden and I had told her specifically not to kiss me because she had really bad breath. But while we were fucking she just did it anyway, and I totally didn't like it.
First technical kiss: This girl I dated for about 4 weeks in high school. When going home on the buses. We only kissed once, and I missed! I got the side of her mouth! Oh well, that relationship was doomed anyway.
First real kiss: At the end of high school, I was at this girl's house and while we were watching a scary movie, she grabbed my hand and didn't let go for the rest of the movie. When I was about to leave she gave me a good, long smooch on the lips. I don't think my heart slowed down until the next day. That relationship lasted a year but since she was a germophobe and didn't like Frenching, we never did a real deep kiss.
First French: Oh lawd. It was a dare in Truth or Dare. 10 seconds of full-tongue action. The girl was kinda cute but totally nuts. I got one hell of a boner, though.
Other kisses: I've had so few of these I can remember each one. Once I asked a girl out after a pool party and she turned me down cause "her parents wouldn't let her date right now" and she gave me a kiss on the cheek like some kind of consolation. Gee thanks.
A female friend of mine kissed me on the neck while hugging me after I took her to see Harry Potter 5. I was so surprised I started asking her friends if she had a thing for me but it turned out she didn't.
Now that I'm in college I've started getting into bars. Talking with girls in bars is hard, and one actually gave me a kiss on the cheek for effort. Fucking lame.
First Kiss: Inside of a girl's room while watching Barney
> Now that I'm in college I've started getting into bars. Talking with girls in bars is hard, and one actually gave me a kiss on the cheek for effort. Fucking lame.
You should read Neil Strauss' The Game.
My first real kiss was in high school with a girl I was dating. We kissed on a playground. She stood on one of those spinning things to match my height. A few weeks later we made out for the first time under a slide at a different playground.
Age: Seven/eight
Location: Schoolyard
Details: Tag game in which the girls chase the boys. I lost.
Experience: "Yuck! Cooties!"
Of course, now, "I don't mind so much."
>she gave me a kiss on the cheek like some kind of consolation. Gee thanks.
Better than some people who didn't get anything up to his day.
First kiss: A few months ago. I was at my girlfriend's house and we had been dating only for a couple of weeks. I was about to leave and she kissed me. It was a light peck on the lips but it was amazing. We made out the following day.
Age: 17 and 11 months
Location: Shitty party
Details: My drunk friends took sympathy on drunk me, and got the slut of the year to kiss me.
Experience: 5 seconds of "fuck yeah!", followed by 10 months of "fuck no!". This was the first and only time I've ever kissed anyone.
if a kiss on the cheek counts, then my first was from my high school crush (who did not reciprocate my crush) on my last day of high school. oddly enough, ive never had a kiss on the lips despite having several one-night stands since then. for some odd reason, it feels like a more personal thing than sticking your penis into a girl.
First and only time was during a game of truth and dare. I don't really count that because it was dare with some girl I didn't know.
But hopefully things will change soon, things are going well with this girl I met and if everything stays on course a kiss, with true feelings, will be coming soon.
>>12
So very true. Along the lines which say oral sex is more intimate than sex, kissing is more intimate than oral sex. IMHO
My first kiss happened when I was only thirteen. I did not expect it or did it change anything. It did make me aware of a friend in a way I had never seen her. I think about it and it still makes me smile for some reason.
>>4
Yeah but it's all true. Not to mention she was the one who talked me into having sex, I didn't know shit about it except she was doing it with everyone else in my class.
Apart from that.... I don't really remember. I know I've had other kisses prior to the ones I remember.
But I've never liked a girl so much that I've actually enjoyed a kiss. I feel nothing but wetness smearing up in my face, and wierd smells and tastes.
My first kiss was terrible. I was sixteen and drinking in a hillbilly bar because a friend dragged me there. One of the Jethros we were drinking with decides to do me a favor and tells this girl to give me a kiss and dance with me. I hate C&W music, but the girl was cute. She kissed me, and she tasted like beer and cigarettes, and probably meth, but none of it in a good way. Long story short, some much older dude got pissed off and gave me a black eye over the whole ordeal. It was an unpleasant night all the way around.
Also, I must have banged my first lay a thousand times before we ever kissed on the mouth. Should have been an indicator to me that it was just about sex and I shouldn't have had feelings for her.
i got my first kiss on the cheek when i was around five... *sigh ill never see him again..
i got my second one from my bestfriend... he owed me one XD neheh i suckered him into it... moe indeed.
ahhhh my life sucks
My first kiss technically was 'experimenting' with some of my girly friends in a tent sleepover. It was open-mouth kissing without tongue, go figure. Aged 10/11 probably.
The first real kiss was aged 15, on a dark street in the winter rain under a streetlamp. He made me take his train all the way to his stop and call for a lift in some crafty plot to get me alone. It was a simple kiss on the lips but my heart raced the whole time my dad drove me home.
The boy then starting 'teaching me how to kiss'. Shame he was just using me, it was a really pretty good first kiss.
Other kisses: Every sort of kiss from icky to awesome with my long term boyfriend, and some crazy french kissing stolen from a drunken friend.
I have never been kissed and I have never had sex. I have never felt the affection of a woman. I'll admit that its my fault, but that doesn't make it any less shitty. No woman has ever looked at me like I could be theirs. I am nearing my 21st birthday and I feel like a god damned waste of genetic filth.
>>20
get a hooker. better to pay than to get none at all.
I haven't been kissed yet. I'm 18. Always been single. Proud of it. Better to wait for the right person then waste it on a temp. thing. You only get one first kiss, first time (sex), etc. Its something not be wasted.
16, friend of mine had a crush on me and she turned and kissed me in the dark when I wasn't looking.
Nothing more than on a cheek at a dance.
Something that was doomed to fail, anyway.
I'll find the right girl eventually. =/
A smack by a male friend. Nothing serious, just for fun, we were half-drunk.
Never kissed a girl anywhere else than the cheek. And nothing formal.
The first kiss I gave was to my ex. We were in a hotel at an anime convention, meeting in person for the first time. It was before we had to turn in for the night, so we were just hugging onto each other for a while. Then I gathered up my guts to give him a kiss-- but it ended up just being on the cheek. We were both rather chickeny.
The first time I kissed on the lips with someone was when my friend and his buddies made me play spin the bottle with them all. I was utterly nervous since it was late at night and we were in the park on the grass and weren't suppose to really be there. I gave two kisses to one guy, who's birthday it was, and he seemed very pleased since I always crawled across the grass to reach him. I also gave my first kiss to another girl that night, too. I almost got to tongue her in the next round, but was hesitant since I never did that before, but before we could do anything police came and made us leave. Sometimes I still wish I got to kiss her like that...but she probably would've tasted like cigarettes. Blah.
Some black kid jumped me with a slobbery one in the 7th grade. I was not a happy camper.
I'm 19 and was never kissed ;_;
Don't expect it to happen anymore.
>>13 here
First kiss, 5am this morning. Two days back on campus and I was able to get a kiss. Only one way to describe it...awesome.
meh, there were a few on-the-cheeks in my early 20's.
The first time that I earned it: 25. My apartment. After watching two movies.
>>29
Congratulations, friend.
my first kiss was when i was 8 yrs old with my mums friend's daughter who was 9. i fingered her when i was 10 then didnt get any action till i was 16 lol
Hmmm. According to my folks when I was baby girls would kiss me. Not old ladies or stuff but I mean like girls around my age or young girls at least. Not sure if they're lieing or not so not counting it. As for first on the cheek, in elementary a girl called me from going tomy bus and kissed me on the cheek. Didn't really like it/her and was suprised. First time I kissed on the cheek I guess was about the beginning of high school but can't remember exactly when. Lost my first kiss,on the lips and french, a few months ago and loved every minute of it. Haven't kissed liked that for a while except few pops but frenched today but kind of messed it up. Feel like a big idiot. Well hopefully I do better later today. Same girl that I frenched btw.
I don't remember
My first (and only) kiss came at a party a few months ago (I'm 22, by the way). Another guy and I were competing against each other for this girl's attention. Long story short, he won, but she gave me a quick peck as a consolation prize. It was meant for my cheek but I was behind her at the time, and she did it while turning around, so it inadvertantly ended up on my lips. But it was so quick I could barely even feel it. It hardly even counts.
When I was a 9yrs old girl I used to live at a boarding school. My best friend was a boy, 10 years old. We were often together outside and one day we were playing in the near forest and we started talking about kissing and all the sexual stuff the adults like doing it.
So it ends in two kisses. First a shy kiss, then a french kiss. But of course - we didn't enjoy the french kiss. ;)
mine was actually...stupid. My b-ball team lost BADLY that night...and as co-captain...I was very pissed. My girlfriend, unfortunately, was watching. When we got home, my "lil sis" (my neighbor) suggested we go out for sushi, but I told her to hold on. At that point, my girlfriend told me to go to the garage with her to calm me down. We somewhat argued about my emotions for an hour...before her phone went off and her parents were waiting outside. Scared that she would leave me, I told her to wait. A minute later, I told her "please don't be mad at me." Then...I quickly kissed her. That probably took 1-2 seconds. My girlfriend said: "that was it?" I kissed her again...but still she wasn't "satisfied." I told her then that I didn't want to lose her, and that I was very scared to kiss her...thinking it was like a rite of passage shit or something. Then, for some reason...she came close to me...and kissed me again. This time...it was VERY intimate...with tongue action. Then she left... Sad moment of my life...but still memorable none the less.
I was only 17...and a high school senior at the time...
My first kiss was when I was about 10, in the playground at school- directly next to the long jump pit. It was abrupt, and unwanted. It was from a boy who I didn't really know, but apparently was 'dating' me.
My first french kiss was when I was 12, and some boyfriend of mine decided it'd be a good idea to go for it and shove his fat tongue down my throat. Needless to say, that one was also unwanted.
I wish I was like some of you and just recently recieved my first kiss, I think it would have been alot more special.
I have not kissed at all. Once I did this weird shit with this girl at my babysitter's house. She ended up being a whore, seeing as she went to the same high school as me. In fact, I'm pretty sure later that year (year of the weird shit) we never talked. I saw her occasionally and wondered if she chose to forget.
Basically what happened was we were like "WHAT'S DOWN OUR PANTS???" while all the adults were watching "Arachniphobia" The babysitter's son was up there as well, so we all dropped our pants and we both took turns kissing her vagina.
I am not making this shit up. Either way, in a way, this scarred me so I had to confess to my mom like 5 years later. I know, amazing story. And ever since I have not kissed. I'm 17, 18 soon.
first girlfriend, first kiss, and now the first fight. isnt life great.
>>42
That's not weird, it's called 'playing doctor' and it's a completely normal part of childhood pre-sexual development.
It's is quite odd that your babysitter's son had a vagina, though.
My First Kiss was when I was 17, in the Evening while watching Dawson's Creek with my Girlfriend at the time.
It happened on the second day of us being together.
The first day we just came close to eachothers lips but never touched (rather we drumrolled all day) and then on the second day's morning we got a bit naked and I ended up going down on her, then it was later that evening that I had my First Kiss, Which was Tongue of course.
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First kiss came from my 2nd bf...(who i'm with now, and want to spend eternity with) It was the first day he came to visit my house...We were in my room and we were hugging, and he just pushed my chin up slightly and gave me such a sweet first kiss... IT wasn't horrible like alot of people said how first kisses are. (They LIE lol) xD
It was a simple peck on the lips, not too hard/forced. And I'm 18, had my first kiss 2 weeks after my 18th birthday (Almost 3 months ago). I've been with my bf for almost a year now <3