they all make me feel as though i am just another guy and i am to shy to ask any girl out after one said we were just friends
Periods. Use them. (for the sake of the pun I wished you were a girl)
Break out of your shell, get socially connected. When people recognize you, girls will recognize you. There are lots of threads on this board filled with good advice, take the time to read them and then ask for more personalized advice about your case, if you wish. But you'll have to provide some background if you want customized help.
i been trying, just not going so well...
as for the background I am just a normal guy not very interesting can be considered an otaku and i really don't stand out to other people if I talk it's like i did something wrong to most people around me.
Then do it so they get used to it. And so you get used to it, too.
Iguess but still it's like to amost everyone aroundme I am just a screw up and cant do anything useful.
i have tried hard to fix this and people just be little my attempts at a social life.
How old are you anyway?
Ask your doctor about Suicide!
(From the makers of Cutmyselftoerasethepain)
No, seriously. How old are you? This is relevant to what sort of bitter, jaded and cynical advice I might dole out. If you're young enough I might take pity and say something useful...
Kill yourself. The best solution for everybody
Listen to some Nine Inch Nails.