That's a really blunt way of putting it, highly insensitive, but it's the only way to fit the basic concept into the box.
The thread dealt with a number of people talking about their partners having bad experiences, and how somehow they had developed really submissive tendancies. Kinda stockholm sydrome.
It caught my attention, but then it disappeared.
Was it removed? It is a bit of a edgy one, I guess.
I don't know, but you should ask in an appropriate thread in the requests board, not here.
Maybe it's more appropriate for the sexuality board.