You know that meaningless conversation that allows you to break the ice and learn more about the person? How do you do that.
I mean i know there are questions you ask like, oh where are you from, what do you study/where do you work, and what not. but I guess what I'm wondering is how do you introduce yourself to someone and not come off as creepy. What questions are too personal, and how do you show that you're interested and not appear creepy.
How do you make dorky look cute? what could you say to make a girl feel comfortable, and what might you say that would raise red flags.
I just kinda wanna know what other people do, I mean i don't have the worst luck in the world with women, so this is not some desperate cry for help, just curious.
Hi, how are you doing?
And make sure you give a genuine friendly smile when you ask it.
Question that are too personal are like asking what she will name her kids, or the address her parents live. Ask questions that are broad and will give you a better understanding of that person before you decide if you want her number or not.
"what do you fancy for breakfast!!!"
"Can I borrow your legs? It's cold and I lost my earmuffs."
Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?
I'd say if you just met the girl and know nothing about her, keeping it light will help until she feels more comfortable. Stay on general topics like current news and try to find out what type of things she's interested in. Like music, movies, books, etc. Red flags for me are if the guy asks me where I live (as opposed to, "Are you from around here?") and where I work. Really specific personal things are a quick way to getting ignored.
Asking where someone lives isn't really specific. Asking for their street and house number is specific.
Generally I just get the ball rolling by starting off the conversation and girls being girls will talk their heads off. However, this one girl I am actually in the same room with is like pulling teeth to get a conversation going.
"Do you like mittens!? I like mittens!"
( ﾟ ヮﾟ) MITON GA SUKI!
Do you like bread? I've got French loaf!