and okay. i need some advice...
me and my gf broke up yesterday, and i didnt feel sad or anything (i did the breaking up) and we yelled at eachother. but then she called back and she was saying how she thought all the fighting was her fault and she wanted me to give her a second chance. i told her that i dont really have feelings for her anymore because i wanted it to be a clean break, but she kept on begging me to give her a second chance and asking me why i wouldnt give it to her. i just felt so bad because she really just wanted another chance to make things up even though she knew my feelings for her were kinda gone, but she knew that if things went well there might be a small chance they come back. i only see her as a good friend right now... am I doing the right thing? by giving her a second chance? she know's how i feel, and i know she still more than likes me... i dont want to hurt her, but am i doing the right thing by going back with her? i feel as if i'm playing with her feelings and i dont like it... but, she also might go out with her ex bf to get me jelous and that kid is a total dick, and very abusive. what should i do?
>>1 If she fucks up and goes with a jerk for that reason, too bad. You can't play her savior or she'll never grow up, an neither will you.
Break up and stay apart.
Don't go out with someone just for compassion, that's despicable. You wouldn't want someone to go out with you for compassion, would you?
>>2
okay, yea that's the most basic answer i could think of. only thing is, she's really cool. i'd like to be able to keep her friendship. so the "break up" and "staying apart" would go hand in hand
>>3
I lost my feelings for her mainly because of the nonestop stupid fighting. she'll always over react over everyting. example, she hates my friend (girl) so i have to lie every time i hang out with her. she basically wanted me to stop being her friend. not having that
>>4
yea, and here's the thing. i mention how my gf begged me to get back together with her, so i did it because i felt bad. thing is, i like the friend she hates. and, i actually ahve a chance with this one friend. but, if i get with her after the break up, chances of staying friends with ex will be slim
>>5
idk what you mean by " " xD
>>6
i know yea? this is why you need to hate relationships xD
btw, this is only harder because it is LONG DISTANCE. a little detail i think i left out
Well if you split up and she goes off with her ex, then you can start seeing that other girl and she can't really complain. If you make a fuss about her and her ex and she still decides to see him then she can't complain to you that the friendship is over because you went against her advice and started seeing the other girl.
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT WORK.
Why is this so hard to understand?
Maybe I should set up a spam script that posts it in every thread...
>>7 That's the point. Break up AND stay apart. The girl isn't worth having as a friend as long as she's so immature, and change is going to happen when you don't have contact with her.
>>7 What you gotta do is straight up just get you a slut dont worry bout them other girls.
>>12 Nikka fuck you, this is the PG to the C, mothafucka.
Aint no one can take that away from me!
fuck em both dawg