Dont want to be a cheater (13)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-25 22:24 ID:D6bsua0q

Ive had a girlfriend for a few months and things are going well, shes an intelligent and open minded girl who doesnt live very far away from me.

heres the problem, one of her friends (someone who is known for stealing her friends boyfriends, and being a cheater to her own) has been trying to walk away with me alone, talking to me in private and squeezing my leg, feeling my stomach and inviting me to her house alone. I knew her when i was single, and she tried to flirt with my then too.

Me, my girlfriend and all her other friends have noticed, her friends love her a lot and are getting suspicious and angry, and my girlfriend trusts me, but i dont want to make things awkward and i dont want to cause arguments

so how can i avoid this evil girl, i dont want to stay sober just out of paranoia and i dont want to confront her directly because i dont want to lose a friend

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-25 22:59 ID:A7AnOLAi

Eh?
You will, I repeat YOU WILL confront this son of a fucking whore DIRECTLY and tell her; 'Stay the fuck away from me', or something to that effect. You will do exactly that, and leave a loud statement of that this shit will NOT fly. If you don't do this, you're not her friend, and if she can't handle it she's not your friend.

How the fuck can the bunch of you just accept her outrageous faggotry? Are you all a bunch of useless pussies? I can't believe I'm reading this shit...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-25 23:05 ID:D6bsua0q

to be honest we were kind of in denial at first, and now its looking more and more grim

and calm down dude, im not gonna let her have her way with me, i take pleasure in making sure a women like this wont get their own way

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 00:35 ID:seGw8jq2

>>2
Listen to this Anon. This is what you need to do. A girl who tries to get you to cheat on your S.O. is not a friend in any way, shape, or form.

>>3

>i take pleasure in making sure a women like this wont get their own way

You sound like you're enjoying messing around with her, not cool. Tell her off and forget about her, she can go whore herself to other guys.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 07:07 ID:A7AnOLAi

>>3
I'm not gonna calm down because you're an immature asshole too, seriously wtf? How old are you people, what kind of deprived shithole do you live in?

And hell, I'm definately not flipping out over your problems here dude, I'm just trying to illustrate a proper reaction to what we're dealing with here, so you may understand the gravity of this shit. But if I knew you guys, if I was part of your little circle or whatever, I would give you a full display of distaste.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 08:50 ID:0cPrH5zD

here's what you do:
you rape the slut. when you are fucking her you start beating her telling her to stop being such a slut. then, you finish up with her and start beating her some more. since she's such a slut, when she tells everyone you did it they wont believe you.
she will leave you alone
-end-

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 12:35 ID:D6bsua0q

its difficult because we are only suspicious, she hasnt technically done anything wrong YET

and i dont think i got my point accross, i didnt mean to say i enjoy stuff like this, i meant to say that it makes me feel good to know that a slut like her WONT get what she wants

and she does this suspicious stuff openly infront of my girlfriend and her friends so we are all going to tell her to FO then leave her alone

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 13:40 ID:4SWgSdE2

If you don't do what >>2 says, then you're just as bad as that home wrecker.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-26 14:14 ID:D6bsua0q

I'll be seeing them all again on saturday, i'll do it then

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 11:42 ID:sYhI5aCR

Ok, while >>2 may be a bit raving in his post, his point is clear, and correct.

If you do not want people thinking you're doing things on the side with this... tramp (for lack of a better term), let alone have your girlfriend thinking such things about you, then TELL her boldly & clearly in front of everyone including your girlfriend... Something along the lines of "You know, I really hope you find someone soon, because these advances must feel very awkward for you, given that I'm not interested, and my girlfriend is right here..."

Basically, the solution is obvious, you must shut this tramp down cold in her tracks, in full public. There is no other solution or anything else to do, and I believe you already know that, so do it;

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 11:53 ID:DduXIIhy

>>6
Then she'll bitch about how she was raped and blame that for being a slut, and go and be a slut some more, then write a book about how she was a slut and was raped and has PTSD that Oprah and all her little minions will eat up and feel sorry for her, making her a celebrity slut.

IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT TO HAPPEN!?

On a more serious note OP, you need to tell her straight up that she isn't worth risking your relationship with yur gf and will never be, no matter what she'll ever do. She could a calkwalk nude and you would give a shit, stuff like that. Make sure that you emphasis this or she'll never get the point and keep making unwanted advances, because some people think that all men are willing to fuck everything on two legs.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 16:38 ID:D6bsua0q

op here
yeah im going to do it on saturday, if you want i can let you know how it goes
also think i forgot to mention, its all guys, not just me, im usually the only guy around but when im not the only guy around, she flirts with the rest too
im going to tell her shes pissing me off, and to leave me alone

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 16:54 ID:sYhI5aCR

Bingo, OP, you hit the hammer on the nail here! As others said, regardless of how fun it may be to play with people like this, it's hardly fun if your own girlfriend or others are offended or getting the wrong ideas, and it needs to be stopped, and immediately, at that.

You're doing exactly the right thing, some people have to be told firmly that what they're doing is wrong, and furthermore, is offending you.

Do let us know how it turns out!

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