I love this girl, but what does she think? (14)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 06:29 ID:FcISU2/6

It's a weird situation.
I fell in love with her at my sis' birthday party, she's so cute and lovely..always up to have fun.
We were on the phone for like 5 hours...I asked her if we could go out some time and she said 'Yes'.
I was hanging out with her today, from 3:30 to 6:30...we were sitting on a park bench, talking alot and making fun of people passing us...she's so gorgeous...
I'm going to her house in a few days, we didn't decide when yet.
I need a advice when to ask her out....when is the perfect time??

2 Name: 43 : 2008-05-28 09:09 ID:n7rehCIQ

right now.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 09:24 ID:FcISU2/6

>>2
Why do you think I should tell her and when?
Like when I'm at her house...?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 10:49 ID:Vh+BgGop

>I asked her if we could go out some time and she said 'Yes'
>I need a advice when to ask her out

You already have asked her out - just to something very informal, hanging out in the park, and she said yes and has invited you to her house. You can ask her to another date pretty much anytime. Say that you had fun the other day in the park and that the two of you should do stuff like that more - from what you've said, she will agree with you. Then just suggest something; a movie, a drink, whatever, but maybe something a bit closer to a date than just sitting in the park (e.g. don't take her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant, but do do things where its just the two of you in a situation that could be seen as a date - go for coffee etc)

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 11:06 ID:FcISU2/6

>>4
that sounds good. thx.

I also meant that I asked her to go out with me, not to date eachother like lovers...
Once I'm at her house and we had fun again, I'll ask her if she could imagine to see me more often... is that ok?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 14:56 ID:0ZxqWWPZ

>>5

>I'll ask her if she could imagine to see me more often...

lol, don't ask her exactly that way. Do what >>4 told ya: tell her that you have good time when you two hang out and ask her if you can do it again. If she says yes, ask her when she has time for that. If she's thinking too much, propose a day and time. She will likely say yes cause I see she's interested in you.

Good luck!

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-28 16:55 ID:FcISU2/6

never mind guys...
she just asked me if my goal was more than a good friendship...and I answered honestly...
she replied that she can't think of more than that.

thx for you help anyway...

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-30 04:41 ID:T5k2Hv1n

btw, she's angry on me now because I have a crush on her. she didn't talk to me since post >>7

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-30 05:22 ID:+9WMM8L+

>>7

ow. That sucks. I can't imagine why she'd be /angry/ at you, though. 5 hours on the phone, 3 hours in the park, sounds like you had this one in the bag.

For future references, DO NOT directly answer questions like the one she asked you. In that case, you should've said, "I don't know, it'll take a few dates before I can decide." By spelling out your feelings for her in that message, you sabotaged a very important quality. Many girls love the chase, and if you just give yourself up by admitting your feelings so early, it kills attraction very quickly.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-30 11:53 ID:y9X4GRyW

>>9
Maybe you're right...
She said she's angry because I'm a liar...
she things I'm lying when I say I have a crush on her...

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-31 00:58 ID:vI+RFjID

This girl needs to grow up. She's like 10 years away from being bearable.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-31 23:40 ID:rUsfmGx2

>>10

this girl is crazy, dump that shit NOW

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-01 00:43 ID:W4/DzslK

>>11
>>12
This.

She's only going to toy with your feelings and use you to feel more desired and reassure herself.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-01 17:17 ID:YVbqlSbd

She seems kind of immature.

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