Breaking up... (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 15:13 ID:Aiq7Lo4N

my current girlfriend said she wanted to break up with me because i have not been as good as the other boyfriend she has had in the past. she said i am treating her very well and she is very happy to be with me everyday, but she said i was just not as good enough as the past boyfriend she has had...what should i do? should i accept her departure and move on or tell her i will try to do better?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 15:51 ID:dWzlL1CK

If you can't figure this out by yourself then you don't deserve her.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 17:19 ID:cFqd0KGI

LOL!
I'd like to know why then, she's still not with this "better guy". If he's so fucking great, shouldn't they still be together?

A lot of people try their asses apart at being awesome for the appearance, but after a while it breaks down, while others again are just the same nice chaps all the time. And while not trying to hide their flaws so desperately, might seem less great at first glance.

How long have you been together?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 23:52 ID:dMHghGhK

You should break up with her. Now.
Everyone may compare past and present lovers, but she has no class to say that to your face.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 00:54 ID:mlDYYvL+

>>4
Exactly. She sounds like a goofy flake who doesn't know what she wants. Trust me, I've had one of these; they suck.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 04:04 ID:eteFEArM

Break up with her, she is being dumb and tell her you have higher intelligence standards.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 04:22 ID:Aiq7Lo4N

really? she broke up with her old bf because she didnt like him. his ex said ill make you like me but that didnt happen to her in the end so she finally broke up with him. now she says im not as nice as to her because i don't truly like her because if i truly like her, i should show signs of her ex bf chasing her

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 05:02 ID:hLQm8jwV

If you start kissing up to her she will ask for more so either tell her you're ok with breaking up if things don't work out to see if she's just being a drama queen or just break up and avoid further headache because she probably gonna keep doing these act even if it works out ok this time.

9 Name: 43 : 2008-06-21 10:28 ID:iWjc9Hru

>>7

She seem to be too immature to realise that people are just different.

Let her go, she'll come back.

10 Name: Mr. A.C. Credmire : 2008-06-27 03:03 ID:PgwdopYl

>>9 + >>4

When she comes back, KICK HER OUT.
If she does come back then she's insane.
After that, if she comes back, she's desperate.
Say to her the brutal, honest truth. Anything she says back to that with be the revealing of her insecurities.
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