if they all cant seem to see that it's the guy that sits down and talks to them and comforts them when they have problems, that's the guy who cares about them the most, and most likely likes them the most and would be the better boyfriend...
not the dick that is making all these sexual advances on her
Yes, please go on.
Actually, some of us aren't stupid. We just like the guys who talk to us and comfort us...and who we can have sex with.
>>3
yea, but would you like a guy who would just have sex with you, and not be there to comfort you and talk to you when you need it the most? Her bf dumped her, i was there to comfort her and talk to her about shit. her bf wants her back after dating another girl, she goes running back
That's the way we swing.
The typical nice guys don't stand a chance, because your a boring. And whiny. Got it?
You propably would be a better boyfriend, but atm you're acting like her best friend, her best girlfriend that is.
Gosh, instead of whining and bitching on da interbutt, you should walk straight to her boyfriend, give him a good punch in the face, grab the girl and head off to your bedroom.
Then you can be nice and caring again.
Girls aren't stupid; they're evil. If anything, guys are the morons here.
No, no I wouldn't want someone like that. Because I'm not a fucking idiot. Not all us girls are.
if they all cant seem to see that it's the girl that sits down and talks to them and comforts them when they have problems, that's the girl who cares about them the most, and most likely likes them the most and would be the better girlfriend...
not the bitch with the hot tits that exclusively dates assholes
>>9
Yeah. But sweet and very smart girls also fall in the trap.
And in fact it hurts even harder when you were here for each other and then suddenly you're still there for her but she's with Mr Random Asshole.
People by their very nature are irrational most people have no idea what they truely want or need. such is life. You can't convince someone that what they feel is wrong. reason doesn't work it will just alienate you. Just accept things and keep going thats how it goes.
>>1
This is more about you being a fucking coward.
>>14
Truth told; this thread is now over.
OP is a troll or just got rejected.
I hate this thread....mods, do your work!
>>1
Stop being such an insufferable pussy and perhaps you'll get noticed.
Girls are most interested when you aren't interested in them.
Sort of that whole "we find the things we need when we stop looking for them" paradox.
just start being a hardass. don't be afraid to tell girls you're interested in to STFU and all that. I started being a jerk to girls as a last resort and guess what, it kinda works.
strange how that shit works.
>the guy who cares about them the most, and most likely likes them the most and would be the better boyfriend...
not the dick that is making all these sexual advances on her
Well you kind of say it yourself. He is a dick, he has the balls to make the sexual advances. And girls want guys with balls, because after all where does the sperm come from?
Why is there a mutual exclusivity between being a nice, caring and listening person and a person who plays the sexual angle?
Don't be such a pussy, you don't have to be an asshole, but let her know that you're capable of being more than a friend.
I'm in love with my best friend who is a nice, caring, comforting listener and it's FRUSTRATING AS FUCK because he won't make sexual advances on me and I'm afraid of doing so to him because of that. I hate the aggressive jerk-guys who make sexual advances, and while I like this guy because he's not like that, he's actually too far on the other side of the spectrum. Or maybe he just doesn't feel the same and is content in the "friend zone." But I sure as hell wish I could pull him out of it without worrying that it would ruin the relationship we have already.
I realize that the OP is more than likely a troll, but if you're sick of being the "soft" guy that's there for her but never in her heart, step up and do something about it. You can be the caring guy AND the romantic/sexual guy at the same time. It's stupid to pretend like it's black or white, one or the other, caring or an asshole. Get the balance right and be both her friend and her lover. I think most relationships would be more enjoyable that way.
OP
not troll, and i started being more assertive. it worked. wish it didnt because she turned out to be a clingy bitch. funny how things work out isnt it
OP got what he deserved