Screwed... (4)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 22:02 ID:h3mSv1qQ

I need some advice.

I know this girl and ive known her for a long time. A year ago we became very close, to the point where it almost felt like we were dating but we werent for various reasons. When I first asked her if she wanted to date me she said "no" (well in a nicer way) and she said that she was happy with the way things were.

A few months after that school started up again and I missed the first semester due to circumstances beyond me. When I returned to school I find out that the same girl has begun dating someone and that they have been dating since the beginning of the semester.

I went to her and asked her why? why couldnt I be with you? and why did she reject me before but dates the guy, whom is a friend of mine, She simply says "we both knew how we felt about each other"

I think to myself...that is sort of F-ed up I felt betrayed.

Its been a while since then but I still cant stop thinking about her...help.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 23:13 ID:6LULcGDn

fuck her and your friend, get new ones

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 23:28 ID:dmrPhlar

Sounds like a case of "X girl is a selfish bitch but doesn't come off as being one immediately." Bottom line: if it was obvious that you were interested in her, then she was taking advantage of your feelings and ignoring or not caring about the inevitable result.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 23:53 ID:h3mSv1qQ

That may be true...well sure feels like she did.
I havent really talked to her since. It feels as if we dont even know each other anymore. Should I maybe start talking to her again? I dont want to leave things as they are now.

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